Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

Narrowed down

9 practices
How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Exercise, food and other supports
Staying regulated in conflict 46The moment before you snap 39Choosing your response 36Cool the body first 34Grounding and settling 28What anger actually is 26Your nervous system 25Medication and how it works 25Systems for daily life 24Bringing the future closer 22Answering bids 22The fear underneath anger 22Get started 20Treatment and medication 18Equanimity and perspective 17Your sense of time 17Structure and routine 16Fondness and admiration 15Knowing your partner 14Practising under provocation 14Growing empathy 14Affection and touch 14Making it stick 14Touch and bodywork 13Repair after rupture 13Feelings and focus 12Getting assessed and diagnosed 11Food, caffeine and fuel 11When everything feels flat 9The cost of avoiding 9Moving your body 9Exercise, food and other supports 9Breathing 9Gratitude 9Listening and understanding 8Tolerate distress 8Being seen and judged 8Treatment and medication 8What ADHD actually is 8Screens and attention 7Remembering to do it 7Rituals of connection 6Shame and stigma 6Shared spiritual life 6What worry does 6What you are actually defending 6Feeling from the inside 5Shame 5Posture and how you carry yourself 5Rebuilding trust 5Emotions as signals 5Self-compassion 4Question the thought 4Safety and grounding 3Obsessions and compulsions 3Facing it a step at a time 3Name what you feel 3When you use something to cope 3Breaking the worry loop 2Your worth is not conditional 2Hold a boundary 2Ride the urge 2Righteous anger and perfectionism 2Patience and trust 2Panic and the body 2Calm the body 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Meaning after harm 2Validate yourself and others 2Let the wave come 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2When anger turns to harm 2Working with anger 2Help someone grieving 1Get it out of your head 1Keep the bond 1Your window of tolerance 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1Listen to the body 1Care for yourself in loss 1When you go numb 1Ask and say no well 1Act on your values 1Rest and pacing 1

There is no brain scan, EEG trace or blood test that can tell you whether someone has ADHD. Anything sold as an objective biological test for it is promising more than the science can give.

Group differences do exist, including in the theta to beta balance, but a difference that appears when you average hundreds of people cannot identify…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:247

Balance difficulties do turn up more often in ADHD, by something like half again. That is a fact about company, not about cause, and it does not turn balance training into a treatment.

Plenty of things could sit behind a link like that. More falls and knocks, more risk taken, or genetics feeding both at once. Working on balance…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 17:12

Protocols that spin a child in a chair or tip them backwards and forwards to train balance do not improve ADHD. What they mainly produce is a dizzy child.

There is a cost beyond the wasted afternoons. Something unpleasant that was introduced as treatment teaches a child what treatment feels like, and…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 31:19

Try swapping the word picky for particular. A fair number of people with ADHD have more densely packed taste buds, so the bitterness in a sprout arrives at full volume.

That changes what is going on at the table. A child is not refusing in order to be difficult, they are tasting something stronger than you are.…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 80:24

The amount in a capsule can vary from bottle to bottle, and sometimes between capsules in the same bottle. Undeclared fillers have been found in them too.

This matters most when you are trying to work out whether something helps you. A good month followed by a flat one may be two different products…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 17:12

Kava can damage the liver at a high enough dose, badly enough that some countries have banned it. Herbal is not a synonym for gentle.

The unnerving part is how quiet liver damage is. Someone self medicating anxiety with kava can be accumulating harm and feel nothing at all until it…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:81

Vitamin C cannot really be stockpiled, since the excess leaves in your urine. A, D, E and K are stored in fat, so a large daily dose keeps adding to itself.

Vitamin D is where this bites at the moment, after a lot of people started taking big amounts on their own during the pandemic years. If you are…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 7:31

Omega supplements thin the blood, so they usually do not belong alongside warfarin. Bruising easily is often the first thing anyone notices.

One clinician worked out that her husband's bruising came from taking omegas on top of his Coumadin, and it settled once his doctor told him to stop.…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 73:20

If fish oil gives you those horrible repeats all afternoon, that is a fixable problem rather than a reason to stop. Keep the capsules in the freezer, ask about an enteric coated version, or try a flavoured liquid.

Sticking with something usually fails for small unglamorous reasons like this. Someone with a sensitive palate will not last four weeks with an…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:69

Looking for a whole subject rather than a single practice? Start from the nine areas.