Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

Narrowed down

5 practices
How long you have · Twenty minutes
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Breathing
Systems for daily life 38Medication and how it works 30Moving your body 26Treatment and medication 19Screens and attention 18Getting assessed and diagnosed 17Get started 17What ADHD actually is 17Feelings and focus 16The cost of avoiding 15Reading, numbers and learning differences 14Your nervous system 14Food, caffeine and fuel 11Exercise, food and other supports 10What anger actually is 10Your sense of time 10Bringing the future closer 9The moment before you snap 8Touch and bodywork 8Shared spiritual life 7Shame 6Grounding and settling 6Cool the body first 6The fear underneath anger 6Emotions as signals 6Breaking the worry loop 6Tolerate distress 6Shame and stigma 5Breathing 5Staying regulated in conflict 5When you use something to cope 5Facing it a step at a time 5When everything feels flat 5Remembering to do it 5Growing empathy 4When anger turns to harm 4Rituals of connection 4What worry does 4Righteous anger and perfectionism 4Being seen and judged 4Choosing your response 4Repair after rupture 4Anger, alcohol and the body 3Structure and routine 3Use your strengths 3Rebuilding trust 3Practising under provocation 3Knowing your partner 3Making it stick 3Equanimity and perspective 3Obsessions and compulsions 2Answering bids 2Feeling from the inside 2Letting it out safely 2Posture and how you carry yourself 2What you are actually defending 1Care for yourself in loss 1Safety and grounding 1Living with uncertainty 1Treatment and medication 1Listen to the body 1Rest and pacing 1Question the thought 1Keep the bond 1

These practices are not only pleasant. They change things you could measure, which is worth knowing on the days when pleasant is not reason enough to bother.

Yoga and breath work tend to get filed under relaxation, and that undersells them. There are claims made about them shifting the chemistry involved…

Twenty minutesBreathingBody basedQur’an 32:9

A good instructor says light, moderate, heavy. A poor one says set the dial to three. Only one of those takes account of the body you actually brought with you.

Fixed settings guarantee that somebody in the room is working far too hard and somebody else is barely working at all. If you tend to go flat out and…

Twenty minutesBreathingBody basedQur’an 65:7

Heading towards the shape is the whole job. A perfect triangle is not what the pose is for, and nobody is marking it.

Perfectionism and going too hard tend to travel together, and between them they produce most of the injuries and most of the quitting. If you are…

Twenty minutesBreathingBody basedQur’an 20:26

Go slowly enough to learn something about yourself, rather than only a technique. What is worth keeping is knowing which breath does what in your body.

One round is rarely enough to tell. Try a breath for a minute or two, stop, and check what shifted: the chest, the shoulders, how loud your thoughts…

Twenty minutesBreathingBody basedQur’an 73:4

There are two skills here rather than one: letting your body move and settle in its own way, and being able to steer yourself deliberately towards rest or alertness. It is worth having both.

Most people are strong in one and shy of the other. If you always take charge, your body never gets to finish anything on its own. If you only ever…

Twenty minutesBreathingBody basedQur’an 2:153

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