Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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10 practices
How long you have · Twenty minutes
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Exercise, food and other supports
Systems for daily life 38Medication and how it works 30Moving your body 26Treatment and medication 19Screens and attention 18Getting assessed and diagnosed 17Get started 17What ADHD actually is 17Feelings and focus 16The cost of avoiding 15Your nervous system 14Reading, numbers and learning differences 14Food, caffeine and fuel 11Exercise, food and other supports 10Your sense of time 10What anger actually is 10Bringing the future closer 9The moment before you snap 8Touch and bodywork 8Shared spiritual life 7Grounding and settling 6Cool the body first 6The fear underneath anger 6Emotions as signals 6Breaking the worry loop 6Shame 6Tolerate distress 6Breathing 5Staying regulated in conflict 5When everything feels flat 5Facing it a step at a time 5Remembering to do it 5When you use something to cope 5Shame and stigma 5Righteous anger and perfectionism 4Rituals of connection 4Growing empathy 4Being seen and judged 4Choosing your response 4When anger turns to harm 4Repair after rupture 4What worry does 4Practising under provocation 3Rebuilding trust 3Structure and routine 3Anger, alcohol and the body 3Use your strengths 3Knowing your partner 3Making it stick 3Equanimity and perspective 3Feeling from the inside 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Posture and how you carry yourself 2Answering bids 2Letting it out safely 2Living with uncertainty 1Treatment and medication 1Safety and grounding 1Care for yourself in loss 1Rest and pacing 1Question the thought 1Keep the bond 1What you are actually defending 1Listen to the body 1
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Peripheral biofeedback, the sort that tracks skin conductance and heart rate rather than brainwaves, has more behind it than neurofeedback does. You practise letting the body drop into a calmer state while a monitor shows you it happening.

Once that state is familiar, pair it with a distinctive scent used only for this. After enough repetitions the smell starts pulling the state along…

Twenty minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 13:28

Headsets have become cheap enough to sit in an ordinary consulting room, and the use with the best backing is graded exposure. You can set the intensity exactly and repeat it as often as the person needs.

The value is in the control. A feared situation can be dialled up in small steps, run again the moment it stops being frightening, and ended without…

Twenty minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 73:20

A weighted vest seems to do its work in roughly the first quarter of an hour. Twenty minutes did not beat fifteen, so longer is not more help.

Use it as a tool for a moment rather than a garment for the day: on before the piece of work that needs the most sitting still, off once that is…

Twenty minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:81

If you are thinking about a weighted blanket or vest for a child, let an occupational therapist set the weight. It is a specific number for a specific body, not something to guess at in a shop.

The pull to order one straight away is understandable, especially after months of bad nights. What an OT does is match the weight to the child's size…

Twenty minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 55:8

With some sensory routines, the part doing the work may be a parent's steady hands and full attention rather than the technique itself. Worth knowing, because contact carries into the rest of the day and a protocol does not.

Views differ on this and the research has not sorted it out. What follows practically is that a family who cannot keep the exact routine going has…

Twenty minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:185

When a test trips a child on something it was never meant to measure, change how they answer rather than what is asked. A spelling test spoken aloud is still a spelling test.

One girl saw letters as solid three dimensional shapes that would not sit together on a page, so writing them was a perceptual problem rather than a…

Twenty minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:286

If you are going to take supplements, it is worth paying a small subscription to a service that assays what is actually in them. ConsumerLab is one, at roughly sixty dollars a year.

The thing to check about any such service is who funds it, because a tester paid by manufacturers is a marketing department with a laboratory…

Twenty minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:247

Ask for photographs of every bottle rather than a list from memory, then pass that list to the prescriber. Recall is patchy about names and hopeless about doses.

Intake forms catch some of it and a photo of the shelf catches the rest, including the two things nobody mentions because they seem too minor to…

Twenty minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 6:141

When omega levels are low, everything about ADHD tends to get louder: attention, mood swings, holding things in mind. Low omega does not cause ADHD, but it can be sitting on top of it.

Think of it as one more layer to lift off rather than the thing underneath. Specialist labs can measure levels if it seems worth checking, and…

Twenty minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 23:21

One woman's ADHD symptoms climbed and her thinking slowed as each B12 injection wore off, then settled again after the next one. The deficiency came down one side of her family and the ADHD down the other.

The two lived in the same person without either causing the other. What made it findable was the timing, because difficulties that follow a cycle are…

Twenty minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 23:21

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