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Low mood and hard feelings

Feelings are information before they are problems. The practices here are about naming what you feel accurately, sitting with what will not move yet, and acting on what matters to you even on the days nothing feels like anything.

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Emotions as signals Twenty minutes Under stress Clear all

Theme · Emotions as signals

Shame 3 Letting it out safely 2 Emotions as signals 2 Tolerate distress 1

How long you have · Twenty minutes

A minute 2 Five minutes 1 Twenty minutes 2

When · Under stress

Any ordinary day 3 Under stress 2 After a row 1

Going deeper into a feeling only helps if it is being put in order at the same time. Depth without order is just flooding.

So as the feeling rises, keep laying it out: this is what happened, this is what my body did, this is what I was afraid it meant. If your chest is…

Twenty minutesEmotions as signalsEmotionally focusedQur’an 3:154

When you are trying to reach a feeling, stay with the actual sentence that caused it rather than paraphrasing it into something milder.

She said you are too difficult. Said again, gently, it keeps the moment alive in the room instead of turning it into a memory being reported.…

Twenty minutesEmotions as signalsEmotionally focusedQur’an 15:97