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What keeps a marriage well is not the big gestures. It is knowing each other, turning towards each other in ordinary moments, staying regulated when it gets hot, and repairing quickly when it goes wrong. Most of the practices here take under five minutes.
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2 practicesApproach · Core
When · Something good
When they share good news, ask a question about it.
The next time your spouse tells you something good, do not just say "that's great." Ask about it. How did it happen? What did you say? How did it…
Let them tell the good story twice.
Sharing a joy and being met with delight makes the joy larger and the bond warmer.