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What keeps a marriage well is not the big gestures. It is knowing each other, turning towards each other in ordinary moments, staying regulated when it gets hot, and repairing quickly when it goes wrong. Most of the practices here take under five minutes.
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7 practicesTheme · Shared spiritual life
How long you have · Twenty minutes
Ask your spouse about a dream they hold for their life, and one small way you could back it.
Not a task for this week. A hope for their life. Knowing it, and helping toward it, joins two lives.
Take one concrete action this week toward a goal your spouse cares about.
Watch the kids so they can study. Make the call they dread. Move their dream one inch.
Talk with your spouse about what your roles at home mean to each of you, not just who does what.
Not a chore chart. What providing, nurturing, or protecting means to you underneath.
Name one goal you are building toward together, and say it out loud as ours.
The home, the children's upbringing, a habit of worship. Something you are making together.
Agree with your spouse on one value you want your home to stand for, and live it this week.
Generosity, honesty, patience, prayer. Pick one, name it, and let it show in the house.
Tell your children, or each other, one good part of your story of us.
How you met, a hard thing you got through, why you are proud of this we. Say it aloud.
Wake gently for a prayer together at night, even once this week.
A shared moment turned toward God, in the quiet of the night, binds two hearts to something larger than themselves.