Lesson 5 of 6
One. Reassurance, from anybody
Asking again. Being told again. It is the most socially acceptable compulsion there is, because it looks like seeking knowledge and it involves other people who are being kind to you.
Reassurance works the way checking works. It brings the anxiety down now and raises the need for it later. The people giving it are usually doing so out of love and have no idea they are helping the loop along.