So if the room is cold, whose failure is that

Here is the reframe, and it is the whole point of this lesson.

If the believers are brothers, and your community does not feel like that, the gap between the verse and your week is not evidence that you are broken. It is a gap the community is supposed to close.

That does not fix your Tuesday and it is not meant to. What it does is take a weight off the wrong shoulders. You have probably been carrying the failure of a room as a private verdict on yourself.