Why we will not write it for you

Two reasons, both real.

The first is that a plan written into a phone or a notebook is a document about your intentions, sitting in a house where your things get looked at. A found plan is not a neutral event. That risk is not a reason to have no plan. It is a reason for the plan to live in your head, or with somebody outside the house, or with an advocate.

The second is that a good plan is specific to your building, your money, your papers, your children, your country and your risk. A page on the internet does not know any of those. An advocate at a domestic abuse service does this with people every week, will do it with you for free, and will do it without telling you what to decide. That is the job. It is not a favour you are asking for.