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To find out whether treatment is helping, ask the people who live with the person. One parent who stopped her medication for a family holiday remembered a lovely trip, while her children remembered running it.

Two teenagers had packed for her, fetched what she forgot, and kept an eye on the airport clock. She had no idea any of it happened. There is no blame in this, and it is the reason to ask more than one person before concluding that a medicine makes no difference. Children will usually answer honestly if they are asked gently and not in front of everybody.

Before you use this

This explains how treatments work. Never start, stop or change a medication because of something you read here.

Qur’an and Sunnah

'Consult with them about matters' (Quran 3:159). Asking the household what they have noticed is consultation of the most ordinary kind.

فَبِمَا رَحۡمَةࣲ مِّنَ ٱللَّهِ لِنتَ لَهُمۡۖ وَلَوۡ كُنتَ فَظًّا غَلِيظَ ٱلۡقَلۡبِ لَٱنفَضُّواْ مِنۡ حَوۡلِكَۖ فَٱعۡفُ عَنۡهُمۡ وَٱسۡتَغۡفِرۡ لَهُمۡ وَشَاوِرۡهُمۡ فِي ٱلۡأَمۡرِۖ فَإِذَا عَزَمۡتَ فَتَوَكَّلۡ عَلَى ٱللَّهِۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يُحِبُّ ٱلۡمُتَوَكِّلِينَ

By an act of mercy from God, you [Prophet] were gentle in your dealings with them- had you been harsh, or hard-hearted, they would have dispersed and left you- so pardon them and ask forgiveness for them. Consult with them about matters, then, when you have decided on a course of action, put your trust in God: God loves those who put their trust in Him

Qur’an 3:159read it in the library

Translation: M.A.S. Abdel Haleem, The Qur'an, Oxford University Press, 2004.

What the research says

In a study of over three hundred children taking methylphenidate, poor adherence was linked with maternal distress and with strain in the parent and child relationship rather than with symptom severity alone. It looked at children on medication rather than at parents, and which way the influence runs is not settled. What it does establish is that treatment and family life move together, so the household is a fair place to look for evidence.

Gau SS, Shen HY, Chou MC, Tang CS, Chiu YN, Gau CS. (2006). Determinants of adherence to methylphenidate and the impact of poor adherence on maternal and family measures.. Journal of child and adolescent psychopharmacology doi

Strength of evidence: one line of research. A single study, or a theoretical account.

Why it works

The person whose attention is affected is the least placed to notice what their attention missed.

When not to

Ask children what they have noticed, never to referee whether their parent should take a medicine.

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