Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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Who it is written for
Where you are right now · Struggling right now
On your own, or with someone · Both of us together
Theme · When anger turns to harm

Hurting yourself is not always about coping. Sometimes it is aimed at somebody else, and until you know which it is you cannot know what would help.

This is uncomfortable to ask about and it is not an accusation. An act can be a way through an unbearable hour, or a message to someone who has…

Five minutesWhen anger turns to harmCoreQur’an 2:231

See what you made me do to myself. When self-harm is carrying a message like that, naming the message is not dismissing it, it is looking for the thing that could be said instead.

The question can be asked kindly and straight. Do you ever get angry enough with them to want to hurt yourself so that they feel it. People often say…

Five minutesWhen anger turns to harmCoreQur’an 42:40

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