Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
Narrowed down
2 practicesWho it is written for
On your own, or with someone · Involves someone else
Theme · Answering bids
What anger actually is 13Screens and attention 12Reading, numbers and learning differences 6The moment before you snap 4Knowing your partner 4Affection and touch 4Choosing your response 3Getting assessed and diagnosed 3Treatment and medication 3Rituals of connection 3Righteous anger and perfectionism 3What you are actually defending 2Shared spiritual life 2Equanimity and perspective 2Answering bids 2The fear underneath anger 2Gratitude 1Making it stick 1Repair after rupture 1
Approach · Core
Let them tell the good story twice.
Sharing a joy and being met with delight makes the joy larger and the bond warmer.
Ask which kind of support they want today rather than deciding for them.
Sometimes it is help, sometimes only company; asking spares you both the wrong gift.
Looking for a whole subject rather than a single practice? Start from the nine areas.