Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
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How long you have · Twenty minutes
Who it is written for
Theme · Answering bids
The cost of avoiding 9Systems for daily life 9Screens and attention 9Treatment and medication 8Medication and how it works 8Moving your body 7Shared spiritual life 6Feelings and focus 6Staying regulated in conflict 5What ADHD actually is 5Growing empathy 4Rituals of connection 4Breaking the worry loop 4Exercise, food and other supports 4Getting assessed and diagnosed 4Get started 3Knowing your partner 3Rebuilding trust 3Repair after rupture 3What worry does 3Answering bids 2Facing it a step at a time 2Shame and stigma 2Breathing 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Posture and how you carry yourself 1Food, caffeine and fuel 1When you use something to cope 1What anger actually is 1The moment before you snap 1Structure and routine 1Your nervous system 1Your sense of time 1Righteous anger and perfectionism 1
Once today, ask about a stress from outside the two of you, then just listen. No fixing.
Twenty minutes on their side. Your only job is to understand and be on their team.
Once a day, take turns unloading the day's outside stress while the other just listens and supports, not fixes.
Ten minutes each on stress from beyond the relationship. The listener gives empathy, not solutions.
Looking for a whole subject rather than a single practice? Start from the nine areas.