Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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5 practices
How long you have
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone · On my own
Theme · Posture and how you carry yourself
Your nervous system 81Medication and how it works 69Get started 61Systems for daily life 52What anger actually is 50Your sense of time 48Food, caffeine and fuel 43The moment before you snap 42Choosing your response 41Exercise, food and other supports 40Moving your body 37What ADHD actually is 35Treatment and medication 34Equanimity and perspective 33Bringing the future closer 33Grounding and settling 31The fear underneath anger 30When everything feels flat 29Screens and attention 28Touch and bodywork 27Structure and routine 25Getting assessed and diagnosed 25Practising under provocation 24Shame and stigma 22Feelings and focus 22Making it stick 20Cool the body first 19What worry does 19Treatment and medication 19Being seen and judged 18Breathing 17Growing empathy 17Remembering to do it 17Feeling from the inside 15When you use something to cope 15What you are actually defending 13Reading, numbers and learning differences 12Fondness and admiration 12Tolerate distress 10Righteous anger and perfectionism 10Answering bids 10Obsessions and compulsions 10Staying regulated in conflict 9Knowing your partner 8Self-compassion 8Use your strengths 8Shared spiritual life 7Breaking the worry loop 7Facing it a step at a time 7Gratitude 7Anger, alcohol and the body 6Question the thought 6Emotions as signals 6Posture and how you carry yourself 5Shame 4When anger turns to harm 3When you go numb 3Living with uncertainty 3Your worth is not conditional 3Notice the pattern and flex 3Work with your brain 2Repair after rupture 2Rest and pacing 2Meaning after harm 2Keep the bond 2Get it out of your head 2Find meaning 2Act on your values 2Face it gently 2Affection and touch 1Listen to the body 1Listening and understanding 1Care for yourself in loss 1The cost of avoiding 1Panic and the body 1Safety and grounding 1Rebuilding trust 1Your window of tolerance 1
When · Any ordinary day

You are not here for a longer hamstring. You are here for a nervous system that can change gear, work when work is needed and settle when it is not.

An ordinary class measures you against the shape, and that measuring is the same self driving that wore you out in the first place. The therapeutic…

A minutePosture and how you carry yourselfBody basedQur’an 31:19

Once a shape feels safe, it becomes somewhere to explore from. The question stops being am I doing this right and turns into how does my body want to move now.

Stay in an easy position long enough for it to go slightly dull. Dull is the sign that the ground under you is steady. From there, small experiments:…

Five minutesPosture and how you carry yourselfBody basedQur’an 3:191

Picture a cat getting up from a nap. One side lengthens and reaches while the other side curls in, then they swap over. Do that. Add breath and sound if you want them.

After a minute of copying the animal, drop the instructions and let your body carry on however it likes. That is the reason for starting here:…

Five minutesPosture and how you carry yourselfBody basedQur’an 19:58

Take a shape that asks something of you, warrior or mountain, eyes open, the middle of your body switched on. Then, without coming out of it, drop your attention inside and let the pose hold you instead.

Two things get practised in one position. First the doing: strong legs, clear gaze, a body that is ready. Then the yielding: still there, still…

Five minutesPosture and how you carry yourselfBody basedQur’an 2:238

Calm is only half the training. Plenty of people are more frightened of stillness than of adrenaline, because stillness puts the guard down.

If everything you practise is a settling practice, half the range goes untrained, and you may be asking someone to drop a defence they still need. So…

Twenty minutesPosture and how you carry yourselfBody basedQur’an 25:64

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