Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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1 practice
How long you have · Five minutes
Who it is written for
On your own, or with someone · On my own
Theme · Rebuilding trust
Your nervous system 65Medication and how it works 49What anger actually is 46Equanimity and perspective 36The moment before you snap 34Touch and bodywork 34Get started 33Getting assessed and diagnosed 32Grounding and settling 32Exercise, food and other supports 31Choosing your response 30Your sense of time 30When everything feels flat 29The fear underneath anger 28What ADHD actually is 28Food, caffeine and fuel 27Systems for daily life 25Practising under provocation 22Treatment and medication 21Bringing the future closer 19Breathing 18Cool the body first 18Shame and stigma 18Screens and attention 17Moving your body 16Feeling from the inside 16What worry does 16What you are actually defending 15Feelings and focus 14Making it stick 11Structure and routine 11Being seen and judged 11Treatment and medication 10Remembering to do it 9Breaking the worry loop 9Obsessions and compulsions 9Growing empathy 9Righteous anger and perfectionism 8When you use something to cope 8Tolerate distress 8Reading, numbers and learning differences 7Self-compassion 7Emotions as signals 7Posture and how you carry yourself 5Question the thought 5Shame 4When anger turns to harm 4Staying regulated in conflict 4Facing it a step at a time 4When you go numb 3Find meaning 2Act on your values 2Living with uncertainty 2Meaning after harm 2Use your strengths 2Work with your brain 2Anger, alcohol and the body 2Let the wave come 1Knowing your partner 1Get it out of your head 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1Calm the body 1The cost of avoiding 1Your worth is not conditional 1Rest and pacing 1Repair after rupture 1Rebuilding trust 1Your window of tolerance 1Working with anger 1Shared spiritual life 1Notice the pattern and flex 1

A betrayal is the choice of the one who made it. Unhappiness never forced it, and it is not the hurt partner's fault.

A struggling marriage is one thing; how a person responds to it is their own choice. Do not carry blame that is not yours.

Five minutesRebuilding trustGottmanQur’an 6:164

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