Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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1 practice
How long you have · Five minutes
Who it is written for
On your own, or with someone · On my own
Theme · Repair after rupture
Your nervous system 65Medication and how it works 49What anger actually is 46Equanimity and perspective 36The moment before you snap 34Touch and bodywork 34Get started 33Getting assessed and diagnosed 32Grounding and settling 32Exercise, food and other supports 31Your sense of time 30Choosing your response 30When everything feels flat 29What ADHD actually is 28The fear underneath anger 28Food, caffeine and fuel 27Systems for daily life 25Practising under provocation 22Treatment and medication 21Bringing the future closer 19Breathing 18Shame and stigma 18Cool the body first 18Screens and attention 17Feeling from the inside 16What worry does 16Moving your body 16What you are actually defending 15Feelings and focus 14Structure and routine 11Being seen and judged 11Making it stick 11Treatment and medication 10Breaking the worry loop 9Growing empathy 9Obsessions and compulsions 9Remembering to do it 9Tolerate distress 8Righteous anger and perfectionism 8When you use something to cope 8Emotions as signals 7Self-compassion 7Reading, numbers and learning differences 7Posture and how you carry yourself 5Question the thought 5Shame 4When anger turns to harm 4Staying regulated in conflict 4Facing it a step at a time 4When you go numb 3Use your strengths 2Act on your values 2Anger, alcohol and the body 2Work with your brain 2Meaning after harm 2Find meaning 2Living with uncertainty 2Letting it out safely 1Rebuilding trust 1Your worth is not conditional 1Shared spiritual life 1Notice the pattern and flex 1Calm the body 1Let the wave come 1Knowing your partner 1Get it out of your head 1The cost of avoiding 1Face it gently 1Rest and pacing 1Repair after rupture 1Your window of tolerance 1Working with anger 1

Apologise for what landed, not for what you meant.

If you owe an apology today, leave out the word "if" and leave out your intentions. Name what you actually did and what it cost them. "I dismissed…

Five minutesRepair after ruptureCoreQur’an 4:128

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