Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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6 practices
How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone · On my own
Theme · Moving your body
The moment before you snap 34Choosing your response 34Staying regulated in conflict 32Cool the body first 29What anger actually is 24Your nervous system 24Grounding and settling 21The fear underneath anger 20Get started 19Bringing the future closer 18Medication and how it works 16Equanimity and perspective 14Your sense of time 14Fondness and admiration 13Answering bids 13Treatment and medication 13Making it stick 12Structure and routine 12Systems for daily life 12Feelings and focus 11Practising under provocation 11Touch and bodywork 11Growing empathy 10Food, caffeine and fuel 9Knowing your partner 9What ADHD actually is 8Exercise, food and other supports 8Gratitude 7Tolerate distress 7Remembering to do it 7Screens and attention 6When everything feels flat 6Moving your body 6Repair after rupture 6What worry does 6What you are actually defending 5Shame and stigma 5Breathing 5Being seen and judged 5Treatment and medication 5Shared spiritual life 5Self-compassion 4Getting assessed and diagnosed 4Question the thought 4Feeling from the inside 4When you use something to cope 3Name what you feel 3Facing it a step at a time 3Shame 2Safety and grounding 2Rituals of connection 2Righteous anger and perfectionism 2Affection and touch 2Hold a boundary 2Ride the urge 2Rebuilding trust 2Posture and how you carry yourself 2Working with anger 2Your worth is not conditional 2Patience and trust 2Panic and the body 2Emotions as signals 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Calm the body 2Let the wave come 2Meaning after harm 2Get it out of your head 1Act on your values 1Keep the bond 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1Listening and understanding 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1Validate yourself and others 1Rest and pacing 1Obsessions and compulsions 1When anger turns to harm 1Listen to the body 1Your window of tolerance 1When you go numb 1Breaking the worry loop 1Reading, numbers and learning differences 1Care for yourself in loss 1
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If the word exercise makes you flinch, drop it. Say moving about, or getting out, and see whether a plan turns up.

For a lot of people that word carries school changing rooms and years of not keeping things up. Swap it and the list of things that count grows:…

A minuteMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:53

Missing a day is not the end of the programme. You missed a day. Tomorrow you carry on.

The dangerous part is not the missed session, it is the story that follows it, the one where you have blown it so you may as well stop altogether.…

A minuteMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 30:54

When you reach a goal, stop and let yourself register it before moving on to the next one. Otherwise you collect achievements and never feel any of them.

The pause can be tiny. Say out loud what you did, tell someone, sit with it for a minute, thank God for it. Racing straight on to the next target…

A minuteMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 28:24

One minute of moving between tasks. Star jumps, a lap of the corridor, anything that gets the blood going before you sit down to the next thing.

Classrooms that do this report smoother changeovers and better recall of whatever was just taught. The same trick works at a desk: end one job, move…

A minuteMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 32:9

A silent room is not restful for everybody. If every cough and creaking knee pulls at you, ask for music or bring headphones with something plain in them.

Too little going on can be as unsettling as too much. A low steady sound covers the sudden little noises that keep snagging your attention. Some…

A minuteMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 32:9

Notice one thing your body is telling you right now. Thirsty, needing the loo, shoulders up somewhere near your ears. That noticing is a skill and it does come back with use.

Long stretches of stress teach you to override the body's signals until you stop hearing them at all. Then hunger, tiredness and the early edge of…

A minuteMoving your bodyBody basedQur’an 32:9

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