Practices

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Who it is written for
Where you are right now · Coping, mostly
On your own, or with someone · On my own
Theme
Medication and how it works 52Your nervous system 52What anger actually is 45Get started 41Choosing your response 41The moment before you snap 39Systems for daily life 39The fear underneath anger 38Staying regulated in conflict 36Equanimity and perspective 36Your sense of time 31Touch and bodywork 30Bringing the future closer 30Moving your body 30Treatment and medication 27Exercise, food and other supports 26Getting assessed and diagnosed 26When everything feels flat 26Feelings and focus 25Grounding and settling 22What ADHD actually is 21Practising under provocation 19Food, caffeine and fuel 19Making it stick 18Structure and routine 18Cool the body first 18What worry does 17Screens and attention 17What you are actually defending 17Treatment and medication 16Growing empathy 15Breathing 15Fondness and admiration 13Answering bids 13Righteous anger and perfectionism 12Being seen and judged 12Shame and stigma 12Feeling from the inside 12Remembering to do it 11Knowing your partner 10Tolerate distress 8Repair after rupture 8Self-compassion 8Emotions as signals 8Breaking the worry loop 7When you use something to cope 7Use your strengths 7Gratitude 7Shared spiritual life 7Anger, alcohol and the body 6Facing it a step at a time 6Question the thought 5When anger turns to harm 5Meaning after harm 4Let the wave come 3Safety and grounding 3Working with anger 3Calm the body 3Act on your values 3Posture and how you carry yourself 3Notice the pattern and flex 3Name what you feel 3Rebuilding trust 3Your worth is not conditional 3Affection and touch 2Ride the urge 2Rest and pacing 2Your window of tolerance 2Work with your brain 2Patience and trust 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Listen to the body 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Keep the bond 2Hold a boundary 2Get it out of your head 2Find meaning 2Face it gently 2Care for yourself in loss 2Rituals of connection 2When you go numb 1The cost of avoiding 1Panic and the body 1Validate yourself and others 1Living with uncertainty 1Listening and understanding 1
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Kava, valerian, St John's wort, ginkgo, ginseng and the proprietary blends have not shown benefit for ADHD in trials that matched the amount in every capsule and kept both the person handing them out and the person rating behaviour unaware of who got what.

Those two design details are most of the story. Ordinary use has dose wobble and expectation running through it, and expectation is powerful,…

Five minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 17:27

If a stimulant that was working suddenly is not, ask what else the person has started taking before deciding the dose needs to go up.

One woman's Adderall went flat while she was on a herbal supplement and came back to its usual self once she stopped it. Herbs can shift stomach…

Five minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 80:24

If a little helps then a lot must help more is not really a supplement thought. It is an addiction shaped thought that has wandered into the vitamin aisle.

Moderation tends not to be a natural strength with ADHD, and this is one place where that costs something. Name it early, before a safe dose has…

Five minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 31:19

People with ADHD tend to have lower omega-3 in their blood, and bringing low levels up has been linked with some improvement in symptoms. No convincing difference has shown up between DHA and EPA for this.

Omega-3 comes mostly from oily fish and krill, and fish is exactly what many people with texture sensitivity will not eat. Whether the shortfall…

Five minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:114

In one trial, children were given omegas with a multivitamin, omegas alone, or neither, and after fifteen weeks everybody got both. The omega groups gained on set shifting and attention, and the children who started with nothing caught up once they crossed over.

Two features of that design are worth understanding. Everyone receiving the treatment eventually shows that the improvement follows the treatment…

Five minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 6:141

Sixty two children took methylphenidate with either vitamin D or a placebo, and both groups improved. The two ADHD rating scales showed no difference between them, which leaves the positive headline resting on the clinician's judgement rather than on what parents reported.

That shape repeats all over this literature, so it is worth learning to spot. When a study reports an effect on one measure and not another, the…

Five minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 17:12

People with ADHD are reported to run low on both tryptophan and homocysteine. Low homocysteine is a good thing to have, since it is the high version that damages hearts.

The reflex to correct any number under the reference range is worth resisting. Levels can be tested where there is a reason to test them. Eating a…

Five minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 55:8

Omega supplementation for ADHD began with encouraging results, including a Swedish study where about a quarter of inattentive children seemed to improve. Blinded, placebo controlled work did not reproduce it, and a Cochrane meta-analysis found no effect.

The manufacturers themselves largely moved on to other conditions, which tells you something. None of this makes omegas worthless, and levels do run…

Five minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:247

Cutting sugar does not improve ADHD, and nor does stripping out additives. Both have been tested repeatedly, including under conditions where nobody knew which child had eaten what.

The belief survives because parties are where children eat sweets, and parties are also loud, crowded and thrilling. The sugar takes the blame for…

Five minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 80:24

Megavitamins, antioxidant products such as pycnogenol and assorted trace minerals have not beaten placebo for ADHD. They stay popular on the strength of a good story about how they ought to work.

The gap between a mechanism and an outcome is the thing worth teaching, because it will still be useful when the next product appears. Ask what…

Five minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 7:31

Chiropractic neurologic organisation training, the kind involving manipulation of the skull, has no credible theory behind it for ADHD. The main harm is not the treatment itself but the months and the money that go into it.

Families meet this because it is marketed at them at the exact moment they are most willing to try anything. Naming it plainly, once, is usually…

Five minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 17:27

With EEG neurofeedback, the weaker the study, the better the results look. Six large trials using sham feedback, with parents and teachers kept unaware of who received what, found nothing beyond placebo.

That shrinking with rigour is itself the finding. Blinding matters especially here because the outcome is a rating made by adults who have watched…

Five minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 10:67

Brain training makes you better at the game, and at things that resemble the game. It does not seem to reach the parts of life you bought it for.

Cogmed, the several hundred apps, the balance based programmes: they all hit the same wall when someone independent tests them with a proper control…

Five minutesExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 3:191

Play therapy and insight based psychotherapy do not treat ADHD. There is no buried, unexpressed feeling driving it that talking will let out.

The difficulty sits in executive control and how it develops, not in hidden conflict. That said, a child with ADHD can also be anxious, grieving or…

LongerExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:153

Drug names ending in pam or lam are almost always benzodiazepines. It is a quick way to pick the class out of somebody's medication list.

The ending tracks a shared chemical backbone, so the shortcut is not a coincidence. Keep a rough rule alongside it: this class suits sharp fear…

A minutePanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 27:10

When loss hits, remember it was named in advance as a test, and that good news was promised to those who hold.

The pain is real and expected, not a sign that something has gone uniquely wrong with you.

A minutePatience and trustGriefQur’an 2:155

On the days you can only endure, endure. Patience through grief is not wasted; it is counted.

Some days the work is simply to bear it without turning bitter. That bearing is itself worth something.

A minutePatience and trustGriefQur’an 39:10

Once a shape feels safe, it becomes somewhere to explore from. The question stops being am I doing this right and turns into how does my body want to move now.

Stay in an easy position long enough for it to go slightly dull. Dull is the sign that the ground under you is steady. From there, small experiments:…

Five minutesPosture and how you carry yourselfBody basedQur’an 3:191

Picture a cat getting up from a nap. One side lengthens and reaches while the other side curls in, then they swap over. Do that. Add breath and sound if you want them.

After a minute of copying the animal, drop the instructions and let your body carry on however it likes. That is the reason for starting here:…

Five minutesPosture and how you carry yourselfBody basedQur’an 19:58

Take a shape that asks something of you, warrior or mountain, eyes open, the middle of your body switched on. Then, without coming out of it, drop your attention inside and let the pose hold you instead.

Two things get practised in one position. First the doing: strong legs, clear gaze, a body that is ready. Then the yielding: still there, still…

Five minutesPosture and how you carry yourselfBody basedQur’an 2:238

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