Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
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Who it is written for
Where you are right now · Struggling right now
On your own, or with someone
Approach · Medical and treatment
The thing worth admitting is not that you were angry. It is what you were frightened of underneath it: being made a fool of, being left, being counted as useless.
Anger is the easy half to say and it rarely lands well. The fear underneath is harder to say and it is the part that gets you heard. One sentence…
Medication does not make somebody care more. It narrows the distance between meaning to do the thing and doing it, and that distance is exactly what the other person has been feeling as being let down.
It helps a couple enormously to have the right name for what has been happening. The intention was real every single time. What went missing was the…
When a child with ADHD and a parent get stuck in daily rows, the rows themselves start doing damage. Getting the ADHD properly managed early takes some heat out of those exchanges before defiance settles in as a habit.
The chain people worry about runs from constant friction at home to entrenched defiance, and from there to difficulties in the teenage years that are…
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