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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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Theme · Validate yourself and others
Staying regulated in conflict 28What anger actually is 20Repair after rupture 15Equanimity and perspective 13The fear underneath anger 12Feelings and focus 11Rebuilding trust 9Cool the body first 8Choosing your response 7Emotions as signals 7The moment before you snap 7Practising under provocation 6Remembering to do it 4Tolerate distress 4Shame and stigma 3What ADHD actually is 2Your sense of time 2Shame 2Treatment and medication 2Making it stick 2What you are actually defending 2Your nervous system 2Bringing the future closer 2When you go numb 1Affection and touch 1Moving your body 1Breaking the worry loop 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1Grounding and settling 1Fondness and admiration 1Facing it a step at a time 1When anger turns to harm 1Screens and attention 1Growing empathy 1Use your strengths 1Validate yourself and others 1
When · After a row
Under stress 1After a row 1

Before you fix or argue, validate: that makes sense, I can see why you feel that. It cools the heat.

People calm down when they feel understood, not corrected. Understanding first, solutions later.

A minuteValidate yourself and othersDBT skillsQur’an 41:34

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