Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
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2 practicesHow long you have · Longer
Who it is written for · Me
Theme · The moment before you snap
Approach
The alarm stores as well as reacts. Every flare that ends badly teaches it a little, and so does every one you handle gently.
That is why triggers pile up over a lifetime, and why one calm response never feels like it changed anything. It is doing work you cannot see yet.…
This started as a way to stop yourself snapping, and it will do that. It also happens to be a way of noticing your whole life while you are in it.
The same watching works on wanting, on worrying, on the hour you lose to your phone. Anger is just the doorway you came in through, usually because…
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