Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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1 practice
How long you have · Five minutes
Who it is written for · Me
Theme · Help someone grieving
Medication and how it works 97Your nervous system 67What anger actually is 50Equanimity and perspective 42The moment before you snap 39Touch and bodywork 37Getting assessed and diagnosed 35Choosing your response 35Grounding and settling 35Systems for daily life 34Get started 34Exercise, food and other supports 32Your sense of time 32Food, caffeine and fuel 30Practising under provocation 28When everything feels flat 28The fear underneath anger 27What ADHD actually is 26Feelings and focus 25Bringing the future closer 25Screens and attention 23Moving your body 21Cool the body first 20Shame and stigma 18Breathing 18Treatment and medication 18Feeling from the inside 16What you are actually defending 16What worry does 15Breaking the worry loop 15Remembering to do it 15Being seen and judged 14Emotions as signals 14Structure and routine 13Growing empathy 13Tolerate distress 11When you use something to cope 11Making it stick 11Treatment and medication 10Staying regulated in conflict 9Rebuilding trust 9Facing it a step at a time 9Obsessions and compulsions 9Knowing your partner 8Righteous anger and perfectionism 8Self-compassion 7Posture and how you carry yourself 6Shame 6Question the thought 5Listening and understanding 5When you go numb 4Shared spiritual life 4Living with uncertainty 3When anger turns to harm 3Rituals of connection 3Use your strengths 3Repair after rupture 2Act on your values 2Meaning after harm 2Work with your brain 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Find meaning 2The cost of avoiding 2Anger, alcohol and the body 2Rest and pacing 2Letting it out safely 1Calm the body 1Your worth is not conditional 1Help someone grieving 1Get it out of your head 1Ask and say no well 1Affection and touch 1Panic and the body 1Notice the pattern and flex 1Face it gently 1Let the wave come 1Your window of tolerance 1Working with anger 1

With someone grieving, offer your presence more than your words. Sit with them; let silence be enough.

You do not need the right thing to say. Being there, quietly and again and again, is the help.

Five minutesHelp someone grievingGriefQur’an 90:17

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