Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
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2 practicesHow long you have · Twenty minutes
Who it is written for · Me
Theme · Answering bids
Systems for daily life 38Medication and how it works 26Moving your body 24Get started 17Feelings and focus 14Your nervous system 14What ADHD actually is 13Treatment and medication 12Food, caffeine and fuel 11Your sense of time 10Screens and attention 9Bringing the future closer 9What anger actually is 9Getting assessed and diagnosed 8The moment before you snap 8Shared spiritual life 7Touch and bodywork 6Tolerate distress 6Cool the body first 6The fear underneath anger 6Grounding and settling 6Emotions as signals 5When you use something to cope 5Staying regulated in conflict 5Exercise, food and other supports 5Breathing 5Breaking the worry loop 5Shame 5Facing it a step at a time 5Repair after rupture 4Rituals of connection 4Being seen and judged 4Growing empathy 4Choosing your response 4Remembering to do it 4Knowing your partner 3Anger, alcohol and the body 3The cost of avoiding 3Equanimity and perspective 3When everything feels flat 3Practising under provocation 3Rebuilding trust 3Righteous anger and perfectionism 3Shame and stigma 3Use your strengths 3What worry does 3When anger turns to harm 2Making it stick 2Posture and how you carry yourself 2Feeling from the inside 2Letting it out safely 2Answering bids 2Structure and routine 2Keep the bond 1Treatment and medication 1Care for yourself in loss 1Living with uncertainty 1Safety and grounding 1What you are actually defending 1Rest and pacing 1Question the thought 1Obsessions and compulsions 1Listen to the body 1
Once today, ask about a stress from outside the two of you, then just listen. No fixing.
Twenty minutes on their side. Your only job is to understand and be on their team.
Once a day, take turns unloading the day's outside stress while the other just listens and supports, not fixes.
Ten minutes each on stress from beyond the relationship. The listener gives empathy, not solutions.
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