Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
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Who it is written for · Me
Theme · Help someone grieving
Medication and how it works 155Your nervous system 113Systems for daily life 103What anger actually is 89The moment before you snap 88Choosing your response 81Get started 73Grounding and settling 67Equanimity and perspective 66Moving your body 63Cool the body first 61Staying regulated in conflict 60Food, caffeine and fuel 59Your sense of time 58Bringing the future closer 58The fear underneath anger 58Feelings and focus 58Touch and bodywork 56Getting assessed and diagnosed 50What ADHD actually is 48Practising under provocation 46Exercise, food and other supports 46When everything feels flat 44Treatment and medication 42Screens and attention 40Growing empathy 34Breathing 34Shame and stigma 30Being seen and judged 30Making it stick 30Structure and routine 28Remembering to do it 26Tolerate distress 26Treatment and medication 25What worry does 25Knowing your partner 25Answering bids 24Feeling from the inside 23Breaking the worry loop 23What you are actually defending 23Emotions as signals 22When you use something to cope 22Repair after rupture 19Facing it a step at a time 18Rebuilding trust 17Shared spiritual life 17Fondness and admiration 15Affection and touch 15Obsessions and compulsions 14Shame 13Listening and understanding 13Posture and how you carry yourself 13Righteous anger and perfectionism 13Rituals of connection 13Self-compassion 12Question the thought 11Use your strengths 10Gratitude 9Anger, alcohol and the body 8The cost of avoiding 7When you go numb 5When anger turns to harm 5Rest and pacing 5Living with uncertainty 5Meaning after harm 4Letting it out safely 4Safety and grounding 4Notice the pattern and flex 3Your worth is not conditional 3Act on your values 3Name what you feel 3Calm the body 3Working with anger 3Panic and the body 3Let the wave come 3Get it out of your head 2Find meaning 2Face it gently 2Care for yourself in loss 2Work with your brain 2Patience and trust 2Ask and say no well 2Validate yourself and others 2Listen to the body 2Your window of tolerance 2Ride the urge 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Keep the bond 2Hold a boundary 2Help someone grieving 2
To someone in grief, a short gentle word beats advice or fixing. Say something kind, and mean it.
You do not need to solve their loss. A soft, sincere word lands better than any counsel.
With someone grieving, offer your presence more than your words. Sit with them; let silence be enough.
You do not need the right thing to say. Being there, quietly and again and again, is the help.
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