Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

Narrowed down

5 practices
How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Treatment and medication
Medication and how it works 22Systems for daily life 20Get started 20Bringing the future closer 17The moment before you snap 16Structure and routine 16Your nervous system 15Fondness and admiration 14Choosing your response 14Your sense of time 14Growing empathy 13Treatment and medication 13Knowing your partner 11Answering bids 11Staying regulated in conflict 10Gratitude 9Food, caffeine and fuel 9Making it stick 9Exercise, food and other supports 9What anger actually is 9Listening and understanding 8Getting assessed and diagnosed 8Touch and bodywork 8Cool the body first 8Breathing 7Grounding and settling 7Screens and attention 7What ADHD actually is 7Moving your body 7When everything feels flat 6Affection and touch 6Feelings and focus 6Remembering to do it 6Equanimity and perspective 5The cost of avoiding 5Shared spiritual life 5Being seen and judged 5The fear underneath anger 5Treatment and medication 5Practising under provocation 4Shame and stigma 4Posture and how you carry yourself 4What worry does 3When you use something to cope 3Emotions as signals 3Self-compassion 3Feeling from the inside 3Your worth is not conditional 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Question the thought 2Rebuilding trust 2Tolerate distress 2What you are actually defending 2Facing it a step at a time 2Face it gently 1Get it out of your head 1Keep the bond 1Breaking the worry loop 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1Shame 1Rituals of connection 1Repair after rupture 1Panic and the body 1
Approach
When · Any ordinary day

A lot of what people now know about ADHD came from a video. Some of it is genuinely good, some of it is not, and asking someone what they have been watching is a fair question to open with.

Creators who live with ADHD have done real good here. They have made people feel recognised and made asking for help less frightening, and some…

A minuteTreatment and medicationMedical and treatmentQur’an 21:7

ADHD is managed rather than cured, across a whole life. Anything advertising a cure is telling you it is not working from the evidence.

Managed sounds like a disappointment until you look at what it means in practice: treatment that fits your life now, adjusted when the life changes,…

A minuteTreatment and medicationMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:286

Most children with ADHD can tell you exactly what they should have done. The knowing was never the missing piece, which is why a course teaching the knowing changes so little.

Watch closely and you see the skill appear in quiet moments and vanish in loud ones, when another child has already grabbed the ball and there is…

A minuteTreatment and medicationCoreQur’an 9:105

If mindfulness is going to help with ADHD, the version with a chance is small and spread out. A few seconds of noticing, several times a day, rather than one long sitting you come to dread.

A forty five minute block asks you to get settled in one place and then somehow carry that into the afternoon, and the carrying is exactly what tends…

A minuteTreatment and medicationCBTQur’an 22:78

By response rate, extended release stimulants are among the most effective medicines in psychiatry, and most people tolerate them well. That is worth hearing plainly, particularly from people who are not generally keen on medication.

What the long acting form buys you is coverage. A dose that has faded by four in the afternoon leaves the evening bare, and the evening is where home…

A minuteTreatment and medicationMedical and treatmentQur’an 26:80

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