Practices

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Theme · Reading, numbers and learning differences
Medication and how it works 148Systems for daily life 90Your nervous system 87Get started 69Getting assessed and diagnosed 64What anger actually is 58Your sense of time 58Moving your body 56Exercise, food and other supports 55Food, caffeine and fuel 53The moment before you snap 49What ADHD actually is 48Treatment and medication 48Bringing the future closer 46Choosing your response 45Screens and attention 44Touch and bodywork 38Equanimity and perspective 37Grounding and settling 34When everything feels flat 34Structure and routine 33Feelings and focus 32Reading, numbers and learning differences 31The fear underneath anger 31Practising under provocation 30Growing empathy 29What worry does 26Cool the body first 25Shame and stigma 25Being seen and judged 24The cost of avoiding 24Breathing 24Making it stick 24Treatment and medication 23Remembering to do it 20Knowing your partner 20When you use something to cope 19Breaking the worry loop 16Feeling from the inside 16Facing it a step at a time 16Shared spiritual life 16What you are actually defending 14Fondness and admiration 14Righteous anger and perfectionism 13Emotions as signals 13Obsessions and compulsions 13Answering bids 12Tolerate distress 12Staying regulated in conflict 11Listening and understanding 10Gratitude 9Posture and how you carry yourself 9Use your strengths 8Self-compassion 8Affection and touch 7Shame 7Rituals of connection 7When anger turns to harm 6Question the thought 6Anger, alcohol and the body 6Rebuilding trust 5Panic and the body 3Rest and pacing 3Your worth is not conditional 3Repair after rupture 3Living with uncertainty 3When you go numb 3Notice the pattern and flex 3Act on your values 2Get it out of your head 2Find meaning 2Face it gently 2Work with your brain 2Keep the bond 2Meaning after harm 2Listen to the body 1Safety and grounding 1Your window of tolerance 1Care for yourself in loss 1
When · Any ordinary day

Before drilling number facts, check whether the child has any feel for how much a number is. Which pile is bigger, is eight nearer to ten or to two, give me three of those.

A child with no sense of quantity can still learn to recite that seven and eight make fifteen, and it will be a string of sounds attached to nothing.…

Twenty minutesReading, numbers and learning differencesCoreQur’an 16:78

Build numbers and break them up again. Seven is five and two, and also six and one, and a child who can see that has the thing mental arithmetic is made of.

Blocks, buttons, coins, anything you can push into two piles and back together. Ask which numbers fit inside other numbers and let the child show you…

Twenty minutesReading, numbers and learning differencesCoreQur’an 87:8

Patterns sit underneath both reading and arithmetic. Blue, red, green, blue, red, green: making a sequence, copying it, then breaking it on purpose builds the ordering that words and numbers both run on.

Use blocks, beads, claps, a drum, anything with an order to it. Ask the child to make the same pattern, then to spoil it deliberately and tell you…

Twenty minutesReading, numbers and learning differencesCoreQur’an 20:25

Find something the child already loves, a team, an orchestra, a game, and lay their results over it. These players are strong, these ones need coaching, and none of it means the team is no good.

Feedback lands very differently when the low scores are players who need training rather than facts about who someone is. Do it with their own…

Twenty minutesReading, numbers and learning differencesCoreQur’an 30:22

When the sound scores and the movement scores are both near the floor, you are looking at more than a reading problem. That pattern needs specialist teaching rather than a general classroom programme with a bit more of it.

Naming things quickly, repeating made up words, working out an unfamiliar word: all at the bottom. Then coordination and handwriting down in the same…

Twenty minutesReading, numbers and learning differencesCoreQur’an 20:29

A child can be excellent at blending sounds you give them aloud and still not read a word on the page. Practising one part very hard does not mean the whole thing has arrived.

Where a child has had a lot of instruction in one subskill, that skill will test well while the actual job stays out of reach. So test the job itself…

Twenty minutesReading, numbers and learning differencesCoreQur’an 2:32

In practice, you sometimes have to stop a child using the trick that has kept them afloat, so the weaker skill finally gets used. Expect them to hate it for a while.

If memorising is doing the work, the part that should be doing it never gets a turn. So build short pieces of practice where the workaround is simply…

Twenty minutesReading, numbers and learning differencesCoreQur’an 94:5

For a very able student, an average score can be the finding rather than proof there is nothing wrong. If everything else sits far above and the sound skills sit in the middle, the distance between them is the thing to report.

Services are usually decided by a cutoff, so the most able affected students go their whole school career without help while working several times as…

Twenty minutesReading, numbers and learning differencesCoreQur’an 80:12

You do not need to become a reading specialist to be useful in a school meeting. A few hours with the current material on how reading is learned will put you ahead of most of the room, and you can carry it in kindly rather than as a challenge.

Pick two or three good sources and actually read them: an introduction written for teachers, and one clear book on how reading develops. What you…

LongerReading, numbers and learning differencesCoreQur’an 18:66

Ask a struggling ten year old what division actually is and you will often get a blank, or a method with no meaning under it. Going back to what each operation does is usually worth more than another go at this term's work.

Division is sharing out, or taking the same amount away again and again until nothing is left. Multiplication is that same amount repeated. Children…

LongerReading, numbers and learning differencesCoreQur’an 18:69

After a course of intensive work, this student's sound skills moved from the middle of the range to near the top. Average was never the ceiling. It was simply where an untreated difficulty had left them.

Hearing single sounds in a word, holding sounds in memory, repeating made up words: all of them shifted a long way once the teaching was right. That…

LongerReading, numbers and learning differencesCoreQur’an 96:5

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