Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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2 practices

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How long you have · Five minutes

A minute 1 Five minutes 2 Twenty minutes 4 Longer 2

Who it is written for

A practitioner 2 Someone I care about 2 Me 2

On your own, or with someone

Involves someone else 1 On my own 1

Theme · Systems for daily life

Touch and bodywork 17 Grounding and settling 15 Your nervous system 13 The moment before you snap 10 Breathing 8 Feelings and focus 8 Cool the body first 8 Feeling from the inside 7 When anger turns to harm 6 Staying regulated in conflict 6 The fear underneath anger 5 Choosing your response 5 Tolerate distress 5 Breaking the worry loop 5 Moving your body 4 What anger actually is 4 The cost of avoiding 4 Medication and how it works 4 Equanimity and perspective 4 Question the thought 3 Listening and understanding 3 Obsessions and compulsions 3 Posture and how you carry yourself 3 What worry does 3 Getting assessed and diagnosed 3 Facing it a step at a time 3 Systems for daily life 2 Exercise, food and other supports 2 Practising under provocation 2 Screens and attention 2 Self-compassion 2 Shame 2 Shame and stigma 2 Structure and routine 2 Treatment and medication 2 Knowing your partner 2 Get started 2 Growing empathy 2 When everything feels flat 2 When you use something to cope 2 Let the wave come 1 Letting it out safely 1 Your sense of time 1 Calm the body 1 Emotions as signals 1 Food, caffeine and fuel 1 Rest and pacing 1 Working with anger 1 Rebuild trust 1 Making it stick 1 What you are actually defending 1 Righteous anger and perfectionism 1

When · Under stress

Any ordinary day 36 Under stress 2 In a change 2

A young person hears the fear in a house even when nobody says anything. If the adults are frightened about their future, they usually take that fear as a verdict on themselves.

If you are the worried parent, you do not have to perform calm. It works better to say the true version out loud: I am anxious about this, the…

Five minutesSystems for daily lifeADHD skillsQur’an 4:28

Before you try to prioritise better, check whether there is any order in there at all. Plenty of people who feel stuck cannot say which of their jobs is genuinely required and which is merely wanted.

You can test it in a couple of minutes. Write the things down and mark the ones that carry a real consequence if they do not happen this week. If you…

Five minutesSystems for daily lifeADHD skillsQur’an 65:3

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