Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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24 practices
How long you have · Five minutes
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Moving your body
Medication and how it works 111Your nervous system 73What anger actually is 60Getting assessed and diagnosed 59Equanimity and perspective 44Touch and bodywork 43Systems for daily life 40Exercise, food and other supports 39The moment before you snap 39Your sense of time 38What ADHD actually is 37Get started 35Grounding and settling 35When everything feels flat 35Choosing your response 35Treatment and medication 31Screens and attention 31Food, caffeine and fuel 30Feelings and focus 29The fear underneath anger 29Practising under provocation 28Bringing the future closer 27Moving your body 24Cool the body first 23What worry does 23Shame and stigma 20Breathing 19Emotions as signals 19Feeling from the inside 17Structure and routine 16The cost of avoiding 16What you are actually defending 16Remembering to do it 15Reading, numbers and learning differences 15Breaking the worry loop 15Being seen and judged 14Growing empathy 14Facing it a step at a time 13Treatment and medication 12Making it stick 12When you use something to cope 12Righteous anger and perfectionism 11Obsessions and compulsions 11Tolerate distress 11When anger turns to harm 9Rebuilding trust 9Staying regulated in conflict 9Knowing your partner 8Shame 7Self-compassion 7When you go numb 6Posture and how you carry yourself 6Question the thought 5Listening and understanding 5Shared spiritual life 4Use your strengths 3Living with uncertainty 3Rituals of connection 3Work with your brain 2Act on your values 2Panic and the body 2Meaning after harm 2Rest and pacing 2Find meaning 2Anger, alcohol and the body 2Repair after rupture 2Let the wave come 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1Your worth is not conditional 1Working with anger 1Your window of tolerance 1Calm the body 1Affection and touch 1Ask and say no well 1Help someone grieving 1Get it out of your head 1Notice the pattern and flex 1
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When

When you are low, the thing most likely to help is the thing you have least appetite for. Make the first step small enough that appetite is not required.

Getting as far as the front door can be the whole task on a bad day. Standing up, putting your shoes on, then deciding, is a fair plan. Anyone…

Five minutesMoving your bodyBody basedQur’an 19:25

A movement practice comes apart into pieces: the shapes, the breathing, the noticing. On a day when the whole thing is beyond you, take one piece.

Just the breathing, sitting where you already are, is a practice. So is one stretch held for a minute. Doing a fragment keeps the thread going, and…

Five minutesMoving your bodyBody basedQur’an 2:239

When somebody does not take up the movement you suggested, ask what got in the way before deciding they did not want to. Usually it is money, childcare, transport or time.

Cost, an awkward class time, nobody to watch the children, a room full of people you would have to make conversation with. None of that is…

Five minutesMoving your bodyBody basedQur’an 67:15

If you are the therapist, you do not need to become the movement teacher as well. Sending somebody to a person trained for it is the better version of helping.

The evidence is for movement alongside therapy, not for therapy with a few stretches added by someone who picked them up from a video. Handing it…

Five minutesMoving your bodyBody basedQur’an 28:26

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