Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
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2 practicesHow long you have · Five minutes
Who it is written for
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Repair after rupture
Medication and how it works 63Getting assessed and diagnosed 41Your nervous system 37What anger actually is 36Systems for daily life 31Equanimity and perspective 29Exercise, food and other supports 27Your sense of time 25Touch and bodywork 23Get started 23What ADHD actually is 22Bringing the future closer 21Treatment and medication 20When everything feels flat 19The moment before you snap 19The fear underneath anger 18Choosing your response 17Feelings and focus 17Moving your body 17What worry does 17Practising under provocation 17Screens and attention 16Grounding and settling 14What you are actually defending 14Food, caffeine and fuel 13Emotions as signals 12Structure and routine 12Righteous anger and perfectionism 11Breathing 10Feeling from the inside 9The cost of avoiding 9Being seen and judged 9Staying regulated in conflict 9Growing empathy 9Rebuilding trust 9Treatment and medication 8Knowing your partner 8Making it stick 7Breaking the worry loop 7Shame and stigma 6Remembering to do it 6Cool the body first 6Tolerate distress 5Listening and understanding 5When you use something to cope 5Self-compassion 5When anger turns to harm 5Shared spiritual life 4Facing it a step at a time 4Reading, numbers and learning differences 4Rituals of connection 3Posture and how you carry yourself 3Obsessions and compulsions 3Use your strengths 3Work with your brain 2Find meaning 2Act on your values 2Panic and the body 2Anger, alcohol and the body 2Repair after rupture 2Meaning after harm 2Your worth is not conditional 1Help someone grieving 1Get it out of your head 1Face it gently 1Affection and touch 1Rest and pacing 1Calm the body 1Ask and say no well 1Question the thought 1Living with uncertainty 1Let the wave come 1Notice the pattern and flex 1When you go numb 1Your window of tolerance 1Working with anger 1Shame 1
Apologise for what landed, not for what you meant.
If you owe an apology today, leave out the word "if" and leave out your intentions. Name what you actually did and what it cost them. "I dismissed…
Name what set you off, then tell the older story behind why it is a trigger for you.
Rewind to an earlier time you felt the same. Sharing that story helps your partner know you.
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