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Theme · Anger, alcohol and the body

Staying regulated in conflict 46 Choosing your response 25 Answering bids 22 Medication and how it works 18 The fear underneath anger 18 The moment before you snap 17 Bringing the future closer 17 Fondness and admiration 15 Your nervous system 15 Affection and touch 14 Equanimity and perspective 14 Knowing your partner 14 What anger actually is 13 Get started 13 Systems for daily life 13 Repair after rupture 13 Growing empathy 12 Cool the body first 12 Your sense of time 12 Treatment and medication 11 Structure and routine 10 Gratitude 9 Grounding and settling 9 Feelings and focus 8 Listening and understanding 8 When everything feels flat 8 Getting assessed and diagnosed 7 Moving your body 7 Rituals of connection 6 Making it stick 6 Exercise, food and other supports 6 Remembering to do it 6 Shared spiritual life 6 Touch and bodywork 6 Screens and attention 5 What you are actually defending 5 Being seen and judged 5 Emotions as signals 5 Rebuilding trust 5 Shame and stigma 4 Tolerate distress 4 Treatment and medication 4 Breathing 4 Food, caffeine and fuel 4 Practising under provocation 4 Question the thought 3 When you use something to cope 3 Safety and grounding 3 What worry does 3 Self-compassion 3 What ADHD actually is 3 Name what you feel 3 The cost of avoiding 3 Calm the body 2 Obsessions and compulsions 2 Patience and trust 2 Reading, numbers and learning differences 2 Ride the urge 2 Shame 2 Hold a boundary 2 When anger turns to harm 2 Validate yourself and others 2 Working with anger 2 Your worth is not conditional 2 Facing it a step at a time 2 Notice the pattern and flex 2 Meaning after harm 2 Let the wave come 2 Ask and say no well 1 Panic and the body 1 Face it gently 1 Anger, alcohol and the body 1 Keep the bond 1 Act on your values 1 Care for yourself in loss 1 Listen to the body 1 Feeling from the inside 1 Get it out of your head 1 Help someone grieving 1 Your window of tolerance 1 Righteous anger and perfectionism 1 Breaking the worry loop 1

You are right that the first drink takes the edge off. That is exactly what makes it hard, and pretending otherwise would only be untrue.

The calm is real at a small amount and it turns on you as the amount climbs, which is why the argument at eleven at night bears no resemblance to the…

A minuteAnger, alcohol and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:219

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