Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for
Theme · Anger, alcohol and the body
Staying regulated in conflict 46The moment before you snap 39Choosing your response 36Cool the body first 34Grounding and settling 28What anger actually is 26Your nervous system 25Medication and how it works 25Systems for daily life 24Bringing the future closer 22The fear underneath anger 22Answering bids 22Get started 20Treatment and medication 18Equanimity and perspective 17Your sense of time 17Structure and routine 16Fondness and admiration 15Growing empathy 14Affection and touch 14Making it stick 14Practising under provocation 14Knowing your partner 14Touch and bodywork 13Repair after rupture 13Feelings and focus 12Getting assessed and diagnosed 11Food, caffeine and fuel 11Moving your body 9Gratitude 9Breathing 9The cost of avoiding 9When everything feels flat 9Exercise, food and other supports 9Being seen and judged 8Listening and understanding 8What ADHD actually is 8Treatment and medication 8Tolerate distress 8Remembering to do it 7Screens and attention 7What you are actually defending 6Shared spiritual life 6Shame and stigma 6Rituals of connection 6What worry does 6Emotions as signals 5Feeling from the inside 5Shame 5Rebuilding trust 5Posture and how you carry yourself 5Self-compassion 4Question the thought 4Obsessions and compulsions 3When you use something to cope 3Facing it a step at a time 3Name what you feel 3Safety and grounding 3When anger turns to harm 2Ride the urge 2Patience and trust 2Panic and the body 2Validate yourself and others 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Meaning after harm 2Working with anger 2Breaking the worry loop 2Your worth is not conditional 2Let the wave come 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Hold a boundary 2Calm the body 2Righteous anger and perfectionism 2Rest and pacing 1Care for yourself in loss 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1Act on your values 1Keep the bond 1When you go numb 1Ask and say no well 1Help someone grieving 1Listen to the body 1Your window of tolerance 1Get it out of your head 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1

You are right that the first drink takes the edge off. That is exactly what makes it hard, and pretending otherwise would only be untrue.

The calm is real at a small amount and it turns on you as the amount climbs, which is why the argument at eleven at night bears no resemblance to the…

A minuteAnger, alcohol and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:219

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