The three reports that get quoted at you

These come up whenever an adult child will not do what a parent wants, so read them with their own footnotes attached rather than as slogans.

The first is the report that the Lord's pleasure is in the parent's pleasure. Graded hasan. The printed note on it says that the stronger chain makes it a statement of the Companion Abdullah ibn Amr himself, rather than words attributed directly to the Prophet. That does not make it worthless. It does mean it will not carry the weight it is usually made to carry.

The second is the report about the man told by a parent to divorce his wife, and the third is the narration of Ibn Umar, whose father told him to divorce a wife he loved, and who was told to do it. This one is authentic and this course is not going to hide it from you. What can honestly be said is that the jurists argued a great deal about whether an instruction given to a particular Companion generalises to every parent and every marriage. A position on that is often attributed to a later jurist, and we could not confirm the attribution or where it is written, so we are not repeating it as his. This is one of the places where you need a scholar and not a website.