Two roads out of the same moment

The moment is the same in both. What differs is which question the family decides to answer first. Follow both roads to the end.

Something is badlywrongAct on what willhelpSettle the causefirstHelp now, causestays openThe waiting loop
Both roads keep the belief. Only one of them keeps the time. The diagram shows one moment splitting into: Something is badly wrong, then Act on what will help, then Settle the cause first, then Help now, cause stays open, then The waiting loop.