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When appetite disappears at lunchtime, work with the child's rhythm instead of against it. Feed them properly at the hours they are actually hungry, which is usually breakfast and then the late afternoon and evening.

What counts over a week is the total, not whether it arrived at the socially correct hour. A decent breakfast before the medicine takes hold, a light lunch without a fight over it, and a real meal when hunger comes back in the evening will usually do it, with plenty of starchy food in there. Grazing all afternoon takes the edge off that evening appetite, so it is better to hold out for the meal. Making lunch a battleground costs you the relationship and gains no calories.

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Qur’an and Sunnah

'Who has forbidden the adornment and the nourishment God has provided for His servants?' (Quran 7:32). Food is a given good here, and the aim is to get it into the child rather than to win a mealtime.

قُلۡ مَنۡ حَرَّمَ زِينَةَ ٱللَّهِ ٱلَّتِيٓ أَخۡرَجَ لِعِبَادِهِۦ وَٱلطَّيِّبَٰتِ مِنَ ٱلرِّزۡقِۚ قُلۡ هِيَ لِلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُواْ فِي ٱلۡحَيَوٰةِ ٱلدُّنۡيَا خَالِصَةࣰ يَوۡمَ ٱلۡقِيَٰمَةِۗ كَذَٰلِكَ نُفَصِّلُ ٱلۡأٓيَٰتِ لِقَوۡمࣲ يَعۡلَمُونَ

Say [Prophet], ‘Who has forbidden the adornment and the nourishment God has provided for His servants?’ Say, ‘They are [allowed] for those who believe during the life of this world: they will be theirs alone on the Day of Resurrection.’ This is how We make Our revelation clear for those who understand

Qur’an 7:32read it in the library

Translation: M.A.S. Abdel Haleem, The Qur'an, Oxford University Press, 2004.

What the research says

Appetite loss is not imagined and it is not trivial. A one year open label study of adults on ADHD medication in routine practice found benefit alongside a substantial burden of side effects, which is a fair reminder that the unwanted effects are common enough to need managing rather than enduring. That study was in adults and did not look at children's growth, so the point it carries here is only that side effects deserve active attention.

Fredriksen M, Dahl AA, Martinsen EW, Klungsøyr O, Haavik J, Peleikis DE. (2014). Effectiveness of one-year pharmacological treatment of adult attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD): an open-label prospective study of time in treatment, dose, side-effects and comorbidity.. European neuropsychopharmacology : the journal of the European College of Neuropsychopharmacology doi

Strength of evidence: one line of research. A single study, or a theoretical account.

Why it works

Growth follows what a child eats across the whole day rather than what they manage at midday.

When not to

Weight loss, a child slipping down the growth chart, or eating that has become very restricted needs a proper review rather than a fix at home.

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