Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
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2 practicesWho it is written for
On your own, or with someone · Involves someone else
Theme · Gratitude
Medication and how it works 34Systems for daily life 24Staying regulated in conflict 24The cost of avoiding 20Moving your body 16Knowing your partner 15Rebuilding trust 14Exercise, food and other supports 13Affection and touch 13Listening and understanding 12Screens and attention 12Repair after rupture 11Answering bids 11Rituals of connection 11Shared spiritual life 10Your nervous system 8What anger actually is 8Bringing the future closer 8Feelings and focus 8Your sense of time 7Getting assessed and diagnosed 7Structure and routine 7Treatment and medication 7What ADHD actually is 7Breaking the worry loop 7Growing empathy 6Equanimity and perspective 6What worry does 6Emotions as signals 5Get started 5Food, caffeine and fuel 5Grounding and settling 4Breathing 4When you use something to cope 4When everything feels flat 4Treatment and medication 4Righteous anger and perfectionism 3Choosing your response 3The moment before you snap 3Facing it a step at a time 3Touch and bodywork 2Fondness and admiration 2Being seen and judged 2Help someone grieving 2Ask and say no well 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Shame and stigma 2What you are actually defending 2The fear underneath anger 2Remembering to do it 2Gratitude 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Panic and the body 2Tolerate distress 2Posture and how you carry yourself 1Safety and grounding 1Shame 1Validate yourself and others 1Cool the body first 1Practising under provocation 1
Praise a quality of their character, not only something they did.
To be admired for who you are, not just what you produced, is a rare and steadying gift.
Catch your partner doing something right, and thank them for it, specifically, on the spot.
Notice the small good things and say thanks. Appreciation given often keeps goodwill flowing.
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