Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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Theme · Panic and the body
Medication and how it works 61Systems for daily life 37The cost of avoiding 36Screens and attention 26Staying regulated in conflict 24Moving your body 21Treatment and medication 20Knowing your partner 15Exercise, food and other supports 15Rebuilding trust 14Affection and touch 13Feelings and focus 13What ADHD actually is 13What anger actually is 13Listening and understanding 12Rituals of connection 11Breaking the worry loop 11Your sense of time 11Answering bids 11Your nervous system 11Repair after rupture 11What worry does 10Getting assessed and diagnosed 10Shared spiritual life 10The moment before you snap 10Structure and routine 10Food, caffeine and fuel 10Facing it a step at a time 10Grounding and settling 9Bringing the future closer 9Emotions as signals 7Get started 7Breathing 7Choosing your response 7Cool the body first 7When everything feels flat 7Treatment and medication 7Equanimity and perspective 7Growing empathy 7Remembering to do it 6Reading, numbers and learning differences 6Shame and stigma 5Posture and how you carry yourself 5When you use something to cope 5Touch and bodywork 4Tolerate distress 4Practising under provocation 3Obsessions and compulsions 3Panic and the body 3Making it stick 3Righteous anger and perfectionism 3Being seen and judged 3What you are actually defending 2Help someone grieving 2Ask and say no well 2Gratitude 2The fear underneath anger 2Shame 2Rest and pacing 2Feeling from the inside 2Fondness and admiration 2Validate yourself and others 1Living with uncertainty 1When you go numb 1Safety and grounding 1
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Benzodiazepines turn the volume down. They do not change the setting the volume keeps returning to, and it is worth saying that plainly before someone starts one.

They work by strengthening the braking system the brain already runs, which is why they act quickly and why they need that braking chemistry to be…

Five minutesPanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 94:5

Within this class the choice is mostly about how long the drug lasts rather than how well it works. They all pull on the same receptor, so the real question is what pattern of cover the person in front of you needs.

A short-acting one taken as panic arrives gives sharp relief and teaches the person to keep it in a pocket. A longer-acting one gives smoother cover…

Five minutesPanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:255

The strengthened warning on this class covers misuse, addiction, physical dependence and withdrawal. The part most people miss is that dependence builds with ordinary correct use over weeks, with nobody doing anything wrong.

That distinction needs handling gently, because patients hear dependence and hear addict. Physical dependence is the body settling around something…

LongerPanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 4:28

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