Practices

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Theme · Panic and the body
Medication and how it works 177Your nervous system 120Systems for daily life 114What anger actually is 103Getting assessed and diagnosed 93The moment before you snap 88Choosing your response 81Get started 74Moving your body 71Treatment and medication 71Grounding and settling 71Equanimity and perspective 68Feelings and focus 66Your sense of time 66Staying regulated in conflict 65Touch and bodywork 65What ADHD actually is 65Cool the body first 65Screens and attention 62The fear underneath anger 61Exercise, food and other supports 61Bringing the future closer 60Food, caffeine and fuel 59When everything feels flat 54Practising under provocation 46The cost of avoiding 44Structure and routine 36Growing empathy 36Shame and stigma 35Breathing 35Reading, numbers and learning differences 34What worry does 34Making it stick 33Treatment and medication 31Emotions as signals 30Being seen and judged 30Tolerate distress 27Remembering to do it 27Feeling from the inside 25Knowing your partner 25What you are actually defending 24Answering bids 24When you use something to cope 24Facing it a step at a time 24Breaking the worry loop 24Repair after rupture 19Shame 19Obsessions and compulsions 18Rebuilding trust 17Righteous anger and perfectionism 17Shared spiritual life 17Fondness and admiration 15Affection and touch 15When anger turns to harm 15Posture and how you carry yourself 13Listening and understanding 13Rituals of connection 13Self-compassion 12Question the thought 11Use your strengths 10Gratitude 9Anger, alcohol and the body 8When you go numb 7Living with uncertainty 5Rest and pacing 5Panic and the body 5Safety and grounding 4Letting it out safely 4Meaning after harm 4Name what you feel 3Working with anger 3Your worth is not conditional 3Notice the pattern and flex 3Let the wave come 3Calm the body 3Act on your values 3Listen to the body 2Patience and trust 2Care for yourself in loss 2Get it out of your head 2Keep the bond 2Hold a boundary 2Help someone grieving 2Validate yourself and others 2Ask and say no well 2Work with your brain 2Face it gently 2Your window of tolerance 2Ride the urge 2Find meaning 2
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The speed is why these work and also what they cost. Relief that lands within the half hour is the most teachable kind there is, and what it teaches is to reach for it sooner next time.

How fast a drug comes on drives that learning more than how long it hangs around afterwards. Better to name it out loud with someone than leave them…

A minutePanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 13:28

Drug names ending in pam or lam are almost always benzodiazepines. It is a quick way to pick the class out of somebody's medication list.

The ending tracks a shared chemical backbone, so the shortcut is not a coincidence. Keep a rough rule alongside it: this class suits sharp fear…

A minutePanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 27:10

Benzodiazepines turn the volume down. They do not change the setting the volume keeps returning to, and it is worth saying that plainly before someone starts one.

They work by strengthening the braking system the brain already runs, which is why they act quickly and why they need that braking chemistry to be…

Five minutesPanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 94:5

Within this class the choice is mostly about how long the drug lasts rather than how well it works. They all pull on the same receptor, so the real question is what pattern of cover the person in front of you needs.

A short-acting one taken as panic arrives gives sharp relief and teaches the person to keep it in a pocket. A longer-acting one gives smoother cover…

Five minutesPanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:255

The strengthened warning on this class covers misuse, addiction, physical dependence and withdrawal. The part most people miss is that dependence builds with ordinary correct use over weeks, with nobody doing anything wrong.

That distinction needs handling gently, because patients hear dependence and hear addict. Physical dependence is the body settling around something…

LongerPanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 4:28

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