Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
Narrowed down
3 practicesWho it is written for · My husband or wife
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Answering bids
Approach
When · Something good
Be the first person your spouse wants to tell good news to, by delighting when they do.
Meet their small wins with real, curious gladness, so you stay their first call.
When they share good news, ask a question about it.
The next time your spouse tells you something good, do not just say "that's great." Ask about it. How did it happen? What did you say? How did it…
Let them tell the good story twice.
Sharing a joy and being met with delight makes the joy larger and the bond warmer.
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