Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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How long you have
Who it is written for · Me
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Panic and the body
Medication and how it works 155Your nervous system 113Systems for daily life 103What anger actually is 89The moment before you snap 88Choosing your response 81Get started 73Grounding and settling 67Equanimity and perspective 66Moving your body 63Cool the body first 61Staying regulated in conflict 60Food, caffeine and fuel 59Feelings and focus 58The fear underneath anger 58Bringing the future closer 58Your sense of time 58Touch and bodywork 56Getting assessed and diagnosed 50What ADHD actually is 48Exercise, food and other supports 46Practising under provocation 46When everything feels flat 44Treatment and medication 42Screens and attention 40Breathing 34Growing empathy 34Shame and stigma 30Being seen and judged 30Making it stick 30Structure and routine 28Remembering to do it 26Tolerate distress 26Knowing your partner 25Treatment and medication 25What worry does 25Answering bids 24Breaking the worry loop 23What you are actually defending 23Feeling from the inside 23When you use something to cope 22Emotions as signals 22Repair after rupture 19Facing it a step at a time 18Shared spiritual life 17Rebuilding trust 17Affection and touch 15Fondness and admiration 15Obsessions and compulsions 14Rituals of connection 13Posture and how you carry yourself 13Righteous anger and perfectionism 13Listening and understanding 13Shame 13Self-compassion 12Question the thought 11Use your strengths 10Gratitude 9Anger, alcohol and the body 8The cost of avoiding 7Living with uncertainty 5When anger turns to harm 5Rest and pacing 5When you go numb 5Letting it out safely 4Safety and grounding 4Meaning after harm 4Act on your values 3Panic and the body 3Notice the pattern and flex 3Name what you feel 3Working with anger 3Your worth is not conditional 3Let the wave come 3Calm the body 3Face it gently 2Your window of tolerance 2Listen to the body 2Ride the urge 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Care for yourself in loss 2Get it out of your head 2Keep the bond 2Hold a boundary 2Validate yourself and others 2Ask and say no well 2Help someone grieving 2Find meaning 2Patience and trust 2Work with your brain 2
When

The speed is why these work and also what they cost. Relief that lands within the half hour is the most teachable kind there is, and what it teaches is to reach for it sooner next time.

How fast a drug comes on drives that learning more than how long it hangs around afterwards. Better to name it out loud with someone than leave them…

A minutePanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 13:28

Benzodiazepines turn the volume down. They do not change the setting the volume keeps returning to, and it is worth saying that plainly before someone starts one.

They work by strengthening the braking system the brain already runs, which is why they act quickly and why they need that braking chemistry to be…

Five minutesPanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 94:5

The strengthened warning on this class covers misuse, addiction, physical dependence and withdrawal. The part most people miss is that dependence builds with ordinary correct use over weeks, with nobody doing anything wrong.

That distinction needs handling gently, because patients hear dependence and hear addict. Physical dependence is the body settling around something…

LongerPanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 4:28

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