Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
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2 practicesWho it is written for
On your own, or with someone · Involves someone else
Theme · Gratitude
Medication and how it works 61Systems for daily life 37The cost of avoiding 36Screens and attention 26Staying regulated in conflict 24Moving your body 21Treatment and medication 20Exercise, food and other supports 15Knowing your partner 15Rebuilding trust 14Affection and touch 13Feelings and focus 13What ADHD actually is 13What anger actually is 13Listening and understanding 12Your nervous system 11Your sense of time 11Breaking the worry loop 11Answering bids 11Repair after rupture 11Rituals of connection 11Shared spiritual life 10The moment before you snap 10Food, caffeine and fuel 10Facing it a step at a time 10Getting assessed and diagnosed 10What worry does 10Structure and routine 10Bringing the future closer 9Grounding and settling 9When everything feels flat 7Treatment and medication 7Equanimity and perspective 7Breathing 7Choosing your response 7Get started 7Emotions as signals 7Cool the body first 7Growing empathy 7Reading, numbers and learning differences 6Remembering to do it 6Shame and stigma 5Posture and how you carry yourself 5When you use something to cope 5Touch and bodywork 4Tolerate distress 4Righteous anger and perfectionism 3Practising under provocation 3Panic and the body 3Obsessions and compulsions 3Being seen and judged 3Making it stick 3Shame 2The fear underneath anger 2Rest and pacing 2What you are actually defending 2Gratitude 2Feeling from the inside 2Fondness and admiration 2Ask and say no well 2Help someone grieving 2When you go numb 1Living with uncertainty 1Safety and grounding 1Validate yourself and others 1
Praise a quality of their character, not only something they did.
To be admired for who you are, not just what you produced, is a rare and steadying gift.
Catch your partner doing something right, and thank them for it, specifically, on the spot.
Notice the small good things and say thanks. Appreciation given often keeps goodwill flowing.
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