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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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6 practices
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How long you have
A minute 2Five minutes 2Twenty minutes 1Longer 1
Who it is written for · Someone I care about
Someone I care about 6A practitioner 6Me 4
Where you are right now
Struggling right now 5Coping, mostly 1
On your own, or with someone
On my own 4Involves someone else 2
Theme · Shame and stigma
Grounding and settling 29Cool the body first 26Your nervous system 21The fear underneath anger 17What anger actually is 14Feelings and focus 11Equanimity and perspective 11The moment before you snap 10Systems for daily life 9The cost of avoiding 9Breathing 8Moving your body 8What worry does 7When anger turns to harm 6Screens and attention 6Shame and stigma 6Tolerate distress 6Breaking the worry loop 6Medication and how it works 5Choosing your response 5Facing it a step at a time 5When everything feels flat 4Letting it out safely 4Shame 4Exercise, food and other supports 3What you are actually defending 3Bringing the future closer 3Righteous anger and perfectionism 2Making it stick 2Getting assessed and diagnosed 2Feeling from the inside 2Self-compassion 2Growing empathy 2Food, caffeine and fuel 2Your sense of time 2Treatment and medication 2Structure and routine 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Remembering to do it 1Obsessions and compulsions 1Get started 1What ADHD actually is 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1When you use something to cope 1Rest and pacing 1
When · Under stress
Any ordinary day 24Under stress 6After a row 3In a change 1

Some people will not believe this exists whatever you show them. You are allowed to give a short honest answer and then let the conversation go.

Keep one or two plain facts ready for people who are genuinely curious, because that conversation is often worth having. It is a different…

A minuteShame and stigmaADHD skillsQur’an 16:125

Before you offer anyone the upside of their ADHD, say the hard part out loud first. One patient's answer to being told it was a gift was to ask where he could return it.

A reframe offered too early does not sound hopeful, it sounds like you were not listening. Name the cost in specifics, the job that went, the…

A minuteShame and stigmaADHD skillsQur’an 20:44

When you have stopped believing you can change anything, the reflex is to avoid and to scroll. What breaks that is not encouragement, it is one small thing actually finished.

Pick something small enough to be sure of: one drawer, one email, one form. The point is not the drawer. The point is a fresh piece of evidence that…

Five minutesShame and stigmaADHD skillsQur’an 39:53

The same plan works in a calm week and falls apart in a chaotic one. That is not motivation coming and going. You began the chaotic week with less in reserve and spent most of it before the decisions that mattered arrived.

By the time you reach the important thing, a good deal has already gone on finding keys, apologising, rerouting and starting over. Which is why the…

Five minutesShame and stigmaADHD skillsQur’an 6:132

When a young person with ADHD goes through a first breakup or loses a friendship group, stay closer than usual. Do not wait for the next arranged contact.

Rejection lands harder here, and impulsivity shortens the gap between feeling unbearable and acting on it. A short unannounced check in, a lift…

Twenty minutesShame and stigmaADHD skillsQur’an 39:53

No food in the house means eating out late, which means a late night, which means a late start, which means no time to shop. It is not a character flaw. It is a loop.

The parts that feel most like personal failure, the takeaways, the extra coffee, the money going nowhere, are mostly downstream of a plan that never…

LongerShame and stigmaADHD skillsQur’an 2:286

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