Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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16 practices
How long you have · Five minutes
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone · On my own
Theme · Moving your body
Your nervous system 65Medication and how it works 49What anger actually is 46Equanimity and perspective 36Touch and bodywork 34The moment before you snap 34Get started 33Getting assessed and diagnosed 32Grounding and settling 32Exercise, food and other supports 31Your sense of time 30Choosing your response 30When everything feels flat 29The fear underneath anger 28What ADHD actually is 28Food, caffeine and fuel 27Systems for daily life 25Practising under provocation 22Treatment and medication 21Bringing the future closer 19Shame and stigma 18Cool the body first 18Breathing 18Screens and attention 17Feeling from the inside 16What worry does 16Moving your body 16What you are actually defending 15Feelings and focus 14Making it stick 11Structure and routine 11Being seen and judged 11Treatment and medication 10Obsessions and compulsions 9Growing empathy 9Remembering to do it 9Breaking the worry loop 9Righteous anger and perfectionism 8Tolerate distress 8When you use something to cope 8Emotions as signals 7Self-compassion 7Reading, numbers and learning differences 7Posture and how you carry yourself 5Question the thought 5When anger turns to harm 4Shame 4Facing it a step at a time 4Staying regulated in conflict 4When you go numb 3Find meaning 2Act on your values 2Anger, alcohol and the body 2Work with your brain 2Use your strengths 2Meaning after harm 2Living with uncertainty 2Rebuilding trust 1Shared spiritual life 1Rest and pacing 1Calm the body 1Repair after rupture 1The cost of avoiding 1Working with anger 1Your window of tolerance 1Notice the pattern and flex 1Your worth is not conditional 1Let the wave come 1Knowing your partner 1Get it out of your head 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1
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Five minutes of moving about sharpens concentration enough to notice. You do not need a session, you need a lap of the building.

Before a task you have been avoiding, get the blood going for five minutes. Stairs, a brisk walk to the end of the road, star jumps in the kitchen if…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 71:20

It does not have to be one block. Ten minutes here and ten there add up to the same total, and they are far easier to get.

An hour set aside is an hour that one interruption can swallow. Bits scattered through the day survive better and they break up the sitting, which is…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 12:47

Nobody sits down at a piano and plays Mozart the first afternoon. Set the bar at this week rather than at the finished version of yourself.

The stretch between starting and being any good is where most attempts die, because the reward sits a long way off and today feels like nothing.…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 53:39

Give yourself an hour rather than a fortnight. A short window creates the pressure that gets a thing started, where a long one quietly fills up with everything else.

Two weeks of notice usually means the work happens in the last few hours anyway, with all the dread in between. So set a smaller box on purpose:…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 9:105

When a child starts martial arts and their maths marks go up, the maths did not improve. Their attention did, and timed maths tests measure attention as much as arithmetic.

It is worth being clear about this, because the wrong reading sends people looking for a movement class that teaches numbers. What actually changed…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 22:46

End a session with a few minutes of sitting still. The styles that close with quiet seem to help most with the pause before reacting.

That pause is the couple of seconds in which you get to decide whether something is a good idea. It is trainable, and stillness right after exertion…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 25:63

Do not stop dead. Give the end of anything energetic a few minutes of winding down, so the change of gear is a routine rather than a demand.

Stopping is a transition, and transitions are where things fall apart for a lot of people. A short unwinding phase, the same one every time, takes…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:239

A promising study can be very small. Thirteen teenagers, teachers doing the rating, and a fortnight of follow up is a good start and not a settled answer.

The clever part of that design is the follow up, because it asks whether anything survives after the classes stop, which is where a lot of attention…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 34:11

The lift from a morning run does not last all day. It fades by the afternoon, which is information about when to move rather than a sign it failed.

People often notice they are sharp through the morning and gone by three. If your hardest hours are later, put some movement in before them: a walk…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 30:54

Move just before the difficult task, not after it as a reward. Five minutes of skipping, stairs or running on the spot, then sit down to the thing.

The window straight after moving is when focus is at its best, so that is the bit worth spending on whatever you have been dreading. For a child,…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 19:25

Moving first does not only help you concentrate. It takes some of the heat out of being stuck, which is often the thing that ends the task.

For a lot of people the problem is not the maths, it is what happens inside them when the maths does not come immediately. That surge of frustration…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:77

Almost nobody needs convincing that exercise helps. The gap is between knowing it and doing it, so spend your effort there.

More facts will not close that gap. What closes it is arranging things so the session happens with fewer decisions in the way: kit by the door, a…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 53:39

Chasing the big hit is a trap. Aim for the quieter satisfaction you can have most weeks, because that is the one that lasts.

If you are built to seek out intensity, exercise can turn into another place to chase it: further, faster, more extreme, until you are injured or…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 31:19

Hours of nothing, then panic, then three hours locked onto the wrong task, then dread, then a promise that tomorrow will be different. If that is your day, it is a known pattern and not a character flaw.

People post this shape as a joke and clinicians recognise it as an accurate description. Seeing it written down is often the moment something…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 19:23

When you are low, the thing most likely to help is the thing you have least appetite for. Make the first step small enough that appetite is not required.

Getting as far as the front door can be the whole task on a bad day. Standing up, putting your shoes on, then deciding, is a fair plan. Anyone…

Five minutesMoving your bodyBody basedQur’an 19:25

A movement practice comes apart into pieces: the shapes, the breathing, the noticing. On a day when the whole thing is beyond you, take one piece.

Just the breathing, sitting where you already are, is a practice. So is one stretch held for a minute. Doing a fragment keeps the thread going, and…

Five minutesMoving your bodyBody basedQur’an 2:239

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