Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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1158 practices
Area
How long you have
Who it is written for
Where you are right now · Coping, mostly
On your own, or with someone · On my own
Theme
Medication and how it works 52Your nervous system 52What anger actually is 45Get started 41Choosing your response 41The moment before you snap 39Systems for daily life 39The fear underneath anger 38Staying regulated in conflict 36Equanimity and perspective 36Your sense of time 31Touch and bodywork 30Bringing the future closer 30Moving your body 30Treatment and medication 27Exercise, food and other supports 26Getting assessed and diagnosed 26When everything feels flat 26Feelings and focus 25Grounding and settling 22What ADHD actually is 21Practising under provocation 19Food, caffeine and fuel 19Making it stick 18Structure and routine 18Cool the body first 18What worry does 17Screens and attention 17What you are actually defending 17Treatment and medication 16Growing empathy 15Breathing 15Fondness and admiration 13Answering bids 13Righteous anger and perfectionism 12Being seen and judged 12Shame and stigma 12Feeling from the inside 12Remembering to do it 11Knowing your partner 10Tolerate distress 8Repair after rupture 8Self-compassion 8Emotions as signals 8Breaking the worry loop 7When you use something to cope 7Use your strengths 7Gratitude 7Shared spiritual life 7Anger, alcohol and the body 6Facing it a step at a time 6Question the thought 5When anger turns to harm 5Meaning after harm 4Let the wave come 3Safety and grounding 3Working with anger 3Calm the body 3Act on your values 3Posture and how you carry yourself 3Notice the pattern and flex 3Name what you feel 3Rebuilding trust 3Your worth is not conditional 3Affection and touch 2Ride the urge 2Rest and pacing 2Your window of tolerance 2Work with your brain 2Patience and trust 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Listen to the body 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Keep the bond 2Hold a boundary 2Get it out of your head 2Find meaning 2Face it gently 2Care for yourself in loss 2Rituals of connection 2When you go numb 1The cost of avoiding 1Panic and the body 1Validate yourself and others 1Living with uncertainty 1Listening and understanding 1
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If you carry a firm dislike of medication from childhood, it is worth asking what you actually remember. Often what is remembered is a row between two adults rather than anything the medicine did.

Where parents disagreed about it, the disagreement was frequently about control and about each other. A child in the middle of that absorbs a…

Twenty minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 3:159

Some settings simply suit an attention difficulty better. Expectations set out minute by minute, consequences that arrive the same day, a visible ladder to climb: military life often fits for exactly those reasons.

The point carries well beyond the army. When you are helping someone choose work, ask what the day actually looks like rather than what the job is…

Twenty minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:185

One question is worth asking before choosing between products: which part of the day actually goes wrong? Bead type capsules tend to give more early on, while the pump type keeps more back for the afternoon.

Two products can hold the same molecule and cover the same number of hours, and still fit one person and not another, because of where the strongest…

Twenty minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 42:38

If you learn one thing about how these medicines work, learn the junction between two nerve cells. Nearly every drug in this field acts at one of a handful of points in that small space.

It saves a great deal of memorising. Once you can picture a message being released, landing, and then being cleared away, most explanations turn out…

Twenty minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:114

Mechanism is a moving thing, so it is easier to watch than to read. A university made animation of what happens at the junction will teach you more in ten minutes than a page of description.

Prefer something made by a university or a public body over whatever a search puts at the top, since much of what is written about these drugs is…

Twenty minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 49:6

Once you can follow the sequence, release, landing, clearing away and breaking down, most new drugs turn out to be recombinations of those four. That is a fair claim to competence and a good place to stop.

Learning drug by drug never ends and never transfers. Learning the sequence means you can place something you have never heard of and ask a sensible…

Twenty minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 12:44

Learn the family rather than the members. If you know roughly how one drug in a class behaves, you already know most of what the others will do.

The medicines people are most often on collapse into a handful of families. A new arrival is usually a variation inside one of them, and occasionally…

Twenty minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:185

Some people find they drive better in a manual, because there is always something to be done. Treat that as an experiment rather than a finding.

The reasoning is the same as a fidget toy or a standing desk. A little constant demand can keep an under-occupied system in the room instead of…

LongerMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 12:44

When medication works, its best effect is often on everything else you were already trying. Coaching, exercise, a routine: each of them needs enough attention to get started, and attention is the thing in short supply.

That is why setting medication against the other approaches usually misses the point. The plan you could not keep last year may be perfectly keepable…

LongerMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 4:28

When you reach a goal, stop and let yourself register it before moving on to the next one. Otherwise you collect achievements and never feel any of them.

The pause can be tiny. Say out loud what you did, tell someone, sit with it for a minute, thank God for it. Racing straight on to the next target…

A minuteMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 28:24

One minute of moving between tasks. Star jumps, a lap of the corridor, anything that gets the blood going before you sit down to the next thing.

Classrooms that do this report smoother changeovers and better recall of whatever was just taught. The same trick works at a desk: end one job, move…

A minuteMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 32:9

A silent room is not restful for everybody. If every cough and creaking knee pulls at you, ask for music or bring headphones with something plain in them.

Too little going on can be as unsettling as too much. A low steady sound covers the sudden little noises that keep snagging your attention. Some…

A minuteMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 32:9

Notice one thing your body is telling you right now. Thirsty, needing the loo, shoulders up somewhere near your ears. That noticing is a skill and it does come back with use.

Long stretches of stress teach you to override the body's signals until you stop hearing them at all. Then hunger, tiredness and the early edge of…

A minuteMoving your bodyBody basedQur’an 32:9

Five minutes of moving about sharpens concentration enough to notice. You do not need a session, you need a lap of the building.

Before a task you have been avoiding, get the blood going for five minutes. Stairs, a brisk walk to the end of the road, star jumps in the kitchen if…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 71:20

It does not have to be one block. Ten minutes here and ten there add up to the same total, and they are far easier to get.

An hour set aside is an hour that one interruption can swallow. Bits scattered through the day survive better and they break up the sitting, which is…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 12:47

Give yourself an hour rather than a fortnight. A short window creates the pressure that gets a thing started, where a long one quietly fills up with everything else.

Two weeks of notice usually means the work happens in the last few hours anyway, with all the dread in between. So set a smaller box on purpose:…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 9:105

When a child starts martial arts and their maths marks go up, the maths did not improve. Their attention did, and timed maths tests measure attention as much as arithmetic.

It is worth being clear about this, because the wrong reading sends people looking for a movement class that teaches numbers. What actually changed…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 22:46

End a session with a few minutes of sitting still. The styles that close with quiet seem to help most with the pause before reacting.

That pause is the couple of seconds in which you get to decide whether something is a good idea. It is trainable, and stillness right after exertion…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 25:63

Do not stop dead. Give the end of anything energetic a few minutes of winding down, so the change of gear is a routine rather than a demand.

Stopping is a transition, and transitions are where things fall apart for a lot of people. A short unwinding phase, the same one every time, takes…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:239

A promising study can be very small. Thirteen teenagers, teachers doing the rating, and a fortnight of follow up is a good start and not a settled answer.

The clever part of that design is the follow up, because it asks whether anything survives after the classes stop, which is where a lot of attention…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 34:11

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