Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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17 practices
How long you have · Five minutes
Who it is written for
Where you are right now · Coping, mostly
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Moving your body
Medication and how it works 63Getting assessed and diagnosed 41Your nervous system 37What anger actually is 36Systems for daily life 31Equanimity and perspective 29Exercise, food and other supports 27Your sense of time 25Touch and bodywork 23Get started 23What ADHD actually is 22Bringing the future closer 21Treatment and medication 20The moment before you snap 19When everything feels flat 19The fear underneath anger 18Feelings and focus 17Practising under provocation 17Moving your body 17What worry does 17Choosing your response 17Screens and attention 16What you are actually defending 14Grounding and settling 14Food, caffeine and fuel 13Emotions as signals 12Structure and routine 12Righteous anger and perfectionism 11Breathing 10Feeling from the inside 9The cost of avoiding 9Being seen and judged 9Staying regulated in conflict 9Growing empathy 9Rebuilding trust 9Treatment and medication 8Knowing your partner 8Breaking the worry loop 7Making it stick 7Remembering to do it 6Shame and stigma 6Cool the body first 6When anger turns to harm 5Listening and understanding 5When you use something to cope 5Tolerate distress 5Self-compassion 5Facing it a step at a time 4Shared spiritual life 4Reading, numbers and learning differences 4Posture and how you carry yourself 3Obsessions and compulsions 3Use your strengths 3Rituals of connection 3Find meaning 2Repair after rupture 2Panic and the body 2Meaning after harm 2Work with your brain 2Act on your values 2Anger, alcohol and the body 2Working with anger 1Your window of tolerance 1Notice the pattern and flex 1Help someone grieving 1Get it out of your head 1When you go numb 1Rest and pacing 1Living with uncertainty 1Face it gently 1Question the thought 1Shame 1Calm the body 1Ask and say no well 1Affection and touch 1Your worth is not conditional 1Let the wave come 1
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When

Five minutes of moving about sharpens concentration enough to notice. You do not need a session, you need a lap of the building.

Before a task you have been avoiding, get the blood going for five minutes. Stairs, a brisk walk to the end of the road, star jumps in the kitchen if…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 71:20

It does not have to be one block. Ten minutes here and ten there add up to the same total, and they are far easier to get.

An hour set aside is an hour that one interruption can swallow. Bits scattered through the day survive better and they break up the sitting, which is…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 12:47

Give yourself an hour rather than a fortnight. A short window creates the pressure that gets a thing started, where a long one quietly fills up with everything else.

Two weeks of notice usually means the work happens in the last few hours anyway, with all the dread in between. So set a smaller box on purpose:…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 9:105

When a child starts martial arts and their maths marks go up, the maths did not improve. Their attention did, and timed maths tests measure attention as much as arithmetic.

It is worth being clear about this, because the wrong reading sends people looking for a movement class that teaches numbers. What actually changed…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 22:46

End a session with a few minutes of sitting still. The styles that close with quiet seem to help most with the pause before reacting.

That pause is the couple of seconds in which you get to decide whether something is a good idea. It is trainable, and stillness right after exertion…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 25:63

Teaching a child to fight works better when it comes with a plain rule: you defend, you never start it. The rule is doing as much work as the training.

A child whose brakes are slow benefits from having the decision made in advance, out loud, many times over. Then it is not something to work out in…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:60

Do not stop dead. Give the end of anything energetic a few minutes of winding down, so the change of gear is a routine rather than a demand.

Stopping is a transition, and transitions are where things fall apart for a lot of people. A short unwinding phase, the same one every time, takes…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:239

A scheduled break does not break concentration. It is the unplanned wandering off that does that, and a known break tends to replace it.

Teachers usually expect movement breaks to shatter the lesson and find the opposite: children come back more easily because the break is part of the…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 62:10

A promising study can be very small. Thirteen teenagers, teachers doing the rating, and a fortnight of follow up is a good start and not a settled answer.

The clever part of that design is the follow up, because it asks whether anything survives after the classes stop, which is where a lot of attention…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 34:11

When nobody has checked whether a benefit lasts, that is not the same as finding out it does not. Following people up for a year costs money that most studies never had.

Two mistakes sit either side of this. One is reading a gap in the evidence as bad news. The other is assuming something lasts because a trial…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 53:40

The lift from a morning run does not last all day. It fades by the afternoon, which is information about when to move rather than a sign it failed.

People often notice they are sharp through the morning and gone by three. If your hardest hours are later, put some movement in before them: a walk…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 30:54

Move just before the difficult task, not after it as a reward. Five minutes of skipping, stairs or running on the spot, then sit down to the thing.

The window straight after moving is when focus is at its best, so that is the bit worth spending on whatever you have been dreading. For a child,…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 19:25

Almost nobody needs convincing that exercise helps. The gap is between knowing it and doing it, so spend your effort there.

More facts will not close that gap. What closes it is arranging things so the session happens with fewer decisions in the way: kit by the door, a…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 53:39

Chasing the big hit is a trap. Aim for the quieter satisfaction you can have most weeks, because that is the one that lasts.

If you are built to seek out intensity, exercise can turn into another place to chase it: further, faster, more extreme, until you are injured or…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 31:19

Start the movement slow enough that it is almost boring. Speed it up once it has gone smooth, and only then add the thinking part.

Throwing a beanbag back and forth, bouncing a ball, drumming on the table: pick something plain and let it become automatic before you make it…

Five minutesMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 34:11

When somebody does not take up the movement you suggested, ask what got in the way before deciding they did not want to. Usually it is money, childcare, transport or time.

Cost, an awkward class time, nobody to watch the children, a room full of people you would have to make conversation with. None of that is…

Five minutesMoving your bodyBody basedQur’an 67:15

If you are the therapist, you do not need to become the movement teacher as well. Sending somebody to a person trained for it is the better version of helping.

The evidence is for movement alongside therapy, not for therapy with a few stretches added by someone who picked them up from a video. Handing it…

Five minutesMoving your bodyBody basedQur’an 28:26

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