Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone · On my own
Theme
The moment before you snap 34Choosing your response 34Staying regulated in conflict 32Cool the body first 29Your nervous system 24What anger actually is 24Grounding and settling 21The fear underneath anger 20Get started 19Bringing the future closer 18Medication and how it works 16Equanimity and perspective 14Your sense of time 14Answering bids 13Fondness and admiration 13Treatment and medication 13Systems for daily life 12Making it stick 12Structure and routine 12Touch and bodywork 11Practising under provocation 11Feelings and focus 11Growing empathy 10Food, caffeine and fuel 9Knowing your partner 9What ADHD actually is 8Exercise, food and other supports 8Remembering to do it 7Tolerate distress 7Gratitude 7What worry does 6Screens and attention 6Moving your body 6When everything feels flat 6Repair after rupture 6What you are actually defending 5Breathing 5Shame and stigma 5Treatment and medication 5Being seen and judged 5Shared spiritual life 5Getting assessed and diagnosed 4Feeling from the inside 4Question the thought 4Self-compassion 4When you use something to cope 3Facing it a step at a time 3Name what you feel 3Safety and grounding 2Rituals of connection 2Shame 2Affection and touch 2Righteous anger and perfectionism 2Ride the urge 2Working with anger 2Your worth is not conditional 2Rebuilding trust 2Posture and how you carry yourself 2Patience and trust 2Panic and the body 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Meaning after harm 2Let the wave come 2Hold a boundary 2Emotions as signals 2Calm the body 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 1Listen to the body 1Listening and understanding 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1When you go numb 1When anger turns to harm 1Obsessions and compulsions 1Act on your values 1Breaking the worry loop 1Care for yourself in loss 1Validate yourself and others 1Your window of tolerance 1Rest and pacing 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1Keep the bond 1Get it out of your head 1
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If you open atomoxetine capsules to mix the contents into food, keep it away from your eyes and wash your hands afterwards. The powder stings badly.

The molecule is acidic and cannot be softened without falling apart, so the fix is in the handling rather than the chemistry. Take it with something…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 5:6

Stand up slowly. Getting off the floor after an hour of gaming, or out of bed in the morning, is where the dizziness tends to catch people.

A drop in blood pressure on standing is common enough with these medicines and it frightens people, because a near faint feels like something serious…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 12:67

If a question at the counter feels like judgement rather than care, you are allowed to ask which it is. Is this a medical question or a personal one?

Asked evenly it does not start a row, and it returns the conversation to where it belongs. Pharmacists have proper clinical questions to ask about…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 7:32

The skin patch comes with two things worth knowing before you start. Take it off several hours before bedtime or it keeps delivering and sleep goes, and around one person in six gets a rash bad enough to stop.

The upside is real control over the length of the day. Because the medicine stops arriving soon after the patch comes off, the removal time is yours…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:81

With a bedtime dose, the clock is the dose. Give it too early and the medicine switches on in the small hours, which buys you a child awake at half past four and no appetite at breakfast.

The ordinary effects still apply: appetite tends to dip around the middle of the day and sleep can be harder to come by. What changes is that one…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 55:8

Notice which word somebody reaches for. Protection sounds like a shield against loss, while what the studies describe is closer to a little extra growth, and those are not the same promise.

The difference is small on the page and large in a consultation. A parent who hears protection may start treating the tablet as a wall they cannot…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 17:36

The same question has not been asked of the non-stimulants. They reach much of the same circuitry, so you can see why people expect a similar effect over years, but expecting is all it is.

This is a good place to notice the shape of your own reasoning. Going from these drugs touch the same regions to therefore they do the same thing…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 53:28

People expect to feel wired and often describe feeling settled instead. That surprise is common enough to be worth knowing about before you start.

What tends to quieten is the churn: the half started tasks, the jumping from one thing to another, the low hum of being behind. That can read as calm…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 13:28

Stimulants have been used for this since 1937. That is a long time for any treatment to survive, and very few do.

Longevity is a different argument from a trial result. It means decades of changing fashion, competing products, repeated safety scares and reviews,…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 7:32

These medicines do not pour a foreign chemical into you. Mostly they help you hold on to the serotonin your body already makes, so whatever follows is yours.

The worry underneath is usually about authenticity: that any lift will be counterfeit, or that it will not really be you feeling it. Knowing that the…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:69

The line about not cutting, crushing or chewing a long acting medicine is a safety instruction with a real mechanism behind it. Break the coating and the whole day's dose arrives in one go.

People sometimes crush a capsule because swallowing is genuinely hard, not because they are misusing it, so ask before assuming. There are usually…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:81

Count good days, not unbroken runs. Whatever yesterday was, brilliant or a write off, the only live question is what can be done with today.

Streaks make one slip cost everything, so the missed night turns into a missed week and then the whole effort gets quietly dropped. Aiming for more…

A minuteMedication and how it worksADHD skillsQur’an 39:53

If the word exercise makes you flinch, drop it. Say moving about, or getting out, and see whether a plan turns up.

For a lot of people that word carries school changing rooms and years of not keeping things up. Swap it and the list of things that count grows:…

A minuteMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:53

Missing a day is not the end of the programme. You missed a day. Tomorrow you carry on.

The dangerous part is not the missed session, it is the story that follows it, the one where you have blown it so you may as well stop altogether.…

A minuteMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 30:54

When you reach a goal, stop and let yourself register it before moving on to the next one. Otherwise you collect achievements and never feel any of them.

The pause can be tiny. Say out loud what you did, tell someone, sit with it for a minute, thank God for it. Racing straight on to the next target…

A minuteMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 28:24

One minute of moving between tasks. Star jumps, a lap of the corridor, anything that gets the blood going before you sit down to the next thing.

Classrooms that do this report smoother changeovers and better recall of whatever was just taught. The same trick works at a desk: end one job, move…

A minuteMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 32:9

A silent room is not restful for everybody. If every cough and creaking knee pulls at you, ask for music or bring headphones with something plain in them.

Too little going on can be as unsettling as too much. A low steady sound covers the sudden little noises that keep snagging your attention. Some…

A minuteMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 32:9

Notice one thing your body is telling you right now. Thirsty, needing the loo, shoulders up somewhere near your ears. That noticing is a skill and it does come back with use.

Long stretches of stress teach you to override the body's signals until you stop hearing them at all. Then hunger, tiredness and the early edge of…

A minuteMoving your bodyBody basedQur’an 32:9

When a feeling grips you, name it in one plain word: this is anger, this is fear, this is hurt.

Not a story about why. Just the name. Putting the feeling into a word loosens its hold.

A minuteName what you feelMindfulnessQur’an 3:119

Give the feeling a number from zero to ten, and watch the number instead of obeying it.

A rating turns a wave you are inside into something you are measuring from the shore.

A minuteName what you feelMindfulnessQur’an 40:19

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