Practices

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Area
How long you have
Who it is written for
Where you are right now · Coping, mostly
On your own, or with someone
Theme
Medication and how it works 97Systems for daily life 69Getting assessed and diagnosed 54Get started 47Your nervous system 47Moving your body 43Exercise, food and other supports 40Treatment and medication 39What anger actually is 37Your sense of time 37Bringing the future closer 36Touch and bodywork 30What ADHD actually is 28Screens and attention 26Equanimity and perspective 26Growing empathy 25When everything feels flat 25Structure and routine 25The moment before you snap 25Choosing your response 24Feelings and focus 23Food, caffeine and fuel 23What worry does 22Grounding and settling 21Treatment and medication 20The fear underneath anger 20Knowing your partner 20The cost of avoiding 19Breathing 18Shared spiritual life 16Being seen and judged 16Practising under provocation 15Making it stick 15Fondness and admiration 14Breaking the worry loop 14Remembering to do it 13What you are actually defending 13Shame and stigma 13Righteous anger and perfectionism 13Answering bids 12Staying regulated in conflict 11Emotions as signals 10Listening and understanding 10Reading, numbers and learning differences 10Feeling from the inside 10When you use something to cope 10Gratitude 9Rituals of connection 7Use your strengths 7Affection and touch 7When anger turns to harm 6Cool the body first 6Self-compassion 6Rebuilding trust 5Anger, alcohol and the body 5Obsessions and compulsions 5Facing it a step at a time 5Tolerate distress 5Posture and how you carry yourself 4Question the thought 3Notice the pattern and flex 3Your worth is not conditional 3Repair after rupture 3Panic and the body 3Rest and pacing 2Meaning after harm 2Keep the bond 2Act on your values 2Get it out of your head 2Find meaning 2Face it gently 2Work with your brain 2Your window of tolerance 1Care for yourself in loss 1Shame 1Safety and grounding 1Listen to the body 1Living with uncertainty 1When you go numb 1
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When · Any ordinary day

Dry mouth, a later bedtime and a smaller appetite are the usual early complaints, and each has a workaround. Knowing about them in advance turns a nasty surprise into something you were already expecting.

Water and sugar free sweets for the mouth, an earlier dose for the sleep, food loaded into breakfast and dinner for the appetite. Most people who…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 4:28

A child who barely touches lunch may still eat a normal amount across the day. Look at breakfast and dinner before concluding that they are not eating.

The usual pattern is a decent breakfast, very little at midday and a large dinner, with appetite returning as the dose wears off. So make the two…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:81

When a dose that was working seems to stop working in a growing child, check height and weight before you reach for the word tolerance. These medicines are dosed by body weight, and a child can simply have outgrown the dose.

It is the cheaper explanation and the more common one, and it takes a single appointment to test. Bring the growth chart and the dates when you…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:43

A prescribed dose swallowed as a tablet is set to bring you into the ordinary range, not to make you high. The rise it produces is too slow and too small to be the sort of thing anybody chases.

Misuse in the research is concentrated among people who do not have ADHD and who take the medicine in ways it was never designed for, by crushing it,…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 7:32

The realistic difficulty with this medicine is not misuse. It is forgetting, since part of what is being treated is the very ability to remember to do something later.

So put the reminder outside your head. A weekly pill organiser sitting on top of whatever you pick up every morning, an alarm with the name of the…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 12:67

An untreated attention difficulty rarely stays a blank space. People tend to find something that steadies them, and what they find is not always kind.

Nicotine, coffee at strange hours, cannabis in the evening, a bit of somebody else's prescription: these are often attempts at self correction rather…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 26:80

Conversations about alcohol and cannabis tend to be timed for the child you expect to have at fourteen. With an attention difficulty in the picture, start them earlier and keep them light.

Early does not mean heavy. It means the subject is already open, so the first offer is not the first mention. Keep the tone curious rather than…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:43

Medication does not simply turn the brain up. On scans the regions that should be busy during a task get busier, and the ones that should stay quiet settle.

That detail matters more than it sounds. It says the trouble is one of aim rather than a shortage of effort, which is the opposite of what many…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:69

Watch someone on a laboratory stop task and two things move together on medication: the fidgeting drops and the stopping gets more accurate.

Holding still and holding back turn out to run on the same machinery. That is why inhibition sits underneath so much else, from waiting your turn to…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 4:28

In simulator work the biggest improvements on medication show up in the drivers who were worst without it: stopping properly, slowing for an amber, actually looking around.

That pattern is quietly reassuring. A drug that made everyone sharper would lift the good drivers as well, and this does not look like that. It looks…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 55:8

Offered ten pounds now or twenty in an hour, plenty of people with attention difficulties take the ten and know while they are doing it that it makes no sense. The pull towards now is not a flaw of character.

It shows up in a laboratory and it shows up on a bank statement. Naming it helps, because a thing with a name can be planned around: money moved by…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 65:3

Before you explain anything about medication, ask what the person already believes about it. You cannot correct a worry that has never been said out loud.

Most people arrive carrying something: a cousin who could not sleep, a headline, a parent with a strong view. Lead with your own information and you…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 42:38

None of the non-stimulants should be stopped suddenly. Guanfacine and clonidine began life as blood pressure medicines, and taking them away all at once can send blood pressure sharply back up.

Atomoxetine has its own unpleasant discontinuation effects, closer to those of an antidepressant. So a break because a prescription ran out, or…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:43

In practice the non-stimulants turn up more often as an addition than on their own. A stimulant in the morning with guanfacine alongside it is a common shape.

The two act at different points of the same circuit, so they tend to complement rather than repeat each other, and the blood pressure effect of one…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 42:38

When a dose wears off, things can feel worse than they ever did untreated. A good deal of that is contrast rather than the medicine leaving a debt behind.

You have spent the day at one level and then meet your own baseline without warning, late in the afternoon, usually with something still to do.…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 55:8

A small short-acting dose in the afternoon, on top of the long-acting one, is ordinary practice rather than a special case. Homework and the evening drive often fall outside what the morning dose still reaches.

The hours when you most need to hold back are frequently the hours the medicine has stopped covering. Raising the morning dose to solve an early…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 73:20

For a fair share of children, medication does more than take the edges off. Their behaviour in class comes back inside the ordinary range, which few treatments in psychiatry manage.

That matters for reasons past the symptoms themselves. A child who is no longer the one named in every staff meeting gets spoken to differently by…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 55:8

Nobody is sitting in the passenger seat handing out rewards for safe driving. Medication is the part of treatment that is present when no adult is.

Behavioural plans need somebody to run them. The moments carrying the most risk in adolescence are the ones with nobody there: the drive home, the…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 65:3

Parents and teachers warm to a plan that includes something they do, rather than a prescription on its own. That is not a scientific argument and it still matters.

People stay with treatment they believe in, and belief rises when they have a part in it. So offering the behavioural piece is doing two jobs at…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 3:159

Methylphenidate and amphetamine are not two names for the same thing. One mainly blocks dopamine from being taken back up, and the other does that and pushes more of it out as well.

That extra step is why the amphetamines tend to produce somewhat larger average effects, and why somebody who got nothing from one can do well on the…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:43

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