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Theme · Medication and how it works
Medication and how it works 104Systems for daily life 70Getting assessed and diagnosed 63Your nervous system 61Staying regulated in conflict 60What anger actually is 60Moving your body 48Get started 48Equanimity and perspective 46Choosing your response 44Bringing the future closer 43The moment before you snap 43The fear underneath anger 42Exercise, food and other supports 41Your sense of time 40Treatment and medication 39Touch and bodywork 38Feelings and focus 38Screens and attention 32When everything feels flat 32What ADHD actually is 30Growing empathy 28Grounding and settling 27Structure and routine 26The cost of avoiding 26Knowing your partner 25Answering bids 24Food, caffeine and fuel 24What worry does 23Practising under provocation 22Treatment and medication 20What you are actually defending 20Emotions as signals 20Cool the body first 20Making it stick 19Breathing 19Repair after rupture 19Being seen and judged 18Rebuilding trust 17Shared spiritual life 17Righteous anger and perfectionism 16Fondness and admiration 15Affection and touch 15Breaking the worry loop 14Shame and stigma 14Listening and understanding 13Remembering to do it 13Rituals of connection 13Feeling from the inside 12When anger turns to harm 11When you use something to cope 11Tolerate distress 10Reading, numbers and learning differences 10Gratitude 9Facing it a step at a time 9Use your strengths 8Self-compassion 8Anger, alcohol and the body 6Obsessions and compulsions 6Question the thought 5Posture and how you carry yourself 4Meaning after harm 4Safety and grounding 4Your worth is not conditional 3Act on your values 3Calm the body 3Panic and the body 3Notice the pattern and flex 3Shame 3Working with anger 3Let the wave come 3Name what you feel 3Patience and trust 2Validate yourself and others 2Your window of tolerance 2Work with your brain 2Listen to the body 2Keep the bond 2Hold a boundary 2Help someone grieving 2Get it out of your head 2Find meaning 2Rest and pacing 2Face it gently 2Ride the urge 2Care for yourself in loss 2Ask and say no well 2Living with uncertainty 1When you go numb 1
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Pill swallowing can be taught in a few short sessions with sweets. Start with the tiniest ones, give two to eat for every one swallowed whole, and work up in size across a week.

Keep each session short and cheerful and stop before anyone is upset, since one frightening attempt can set the whole thing back weeks. For capsules,…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:185

Dry mouth, a later bedtime and a smaller appetite are the usual early complaints, and each has a workaround. Knowing about them in advance turns a nasty surprise into something you were already expecting.

Water and sugar free sweets for the mouth, an earlier dose for the sleep, food loaded into breakfast and dinner for the appetite. Most people who…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 4:28

A child who barely touches lunch may still eat a normal amount across the day. Look at breakfast and dinner before concluding that they are not eating.

The usual pattern is a decent breakfast, very little at midday and a large dinner, with appetite returning as the dose wears off. So make the two…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:81

When a dose that was working seems to stop working in a growing child, check height and weight before you reach for the word tolerance. These medicines are dosed by body weight, and a child can simply have outgrown the dose.

It is the cheaper explanation and the more common one, and it takes a single appointment to test. Bring the growth chart and the dates when you…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:43

A prescribed dose swallowed as a tablet is set to bring you into the ordinary range, not to make you high. The rise it produces is too slow and too small to be the sort of thing anybody chases.

Misuse in the research is concentrated among people who do not have ADHD and who take the medicine in ways it was never designed for, by crushing it,…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 7:32

The realistic difficulty with this medicine is not misuse. It is forgetting, since part of what is being treated is the very ability to remember to do something later.

So put the reminder outside your head. A weekly pill organiser sitting on top of whatever you pick up every morning, an alarm with the name of the…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 12:67

An untreated attention difficulty rarely stays a blank space. People tend to find something that steadies them, and what they find is not always kind.

Nicotine, coffee at strange hours, cannabis in the evening, a bit of somebody else's prescription: these are often attempts at self correction rather…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 26:80

Conversations about alcohol and cannabis tend to be timed for the child you expect to have at fourteen. With an attention difficulty in the picture, start them earlier and keep them light.

Early does not mean heavy. It means the subject is already open, so the first offer is not the first mention. Keep the tone curious rather than…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:43

Medication does not simply turn the brain up. On scans the regions that should be busy during a task get busier, and the ones that should stay quiet settle.

That detail matters more than it sounds. It says the trouble is one of aim rather than a shortage of effort, which is the opposite of what many…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:69

Watch someone on a laboratory stop task and two things move together on medication: the fidgeting drops and the stopping gets more accurate.

Holding still and holding back turn out to run on the same machinery. That is why inhibition sits underneath so much else, from waiting your turn to…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 4:28

In simulator work the biggest improvements on medication show up in the drivers who were worst without it: stopping properly, slowing for an amber, actually looking around.

That pattern is quietly reassuring. A drug that made everyone sharper would lift the good drivers as well, and this does not look like that. It looks…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 55:8

When you are weighing up whether a teenager is ready for something, it helps to think in two thirds. A fifteen year old may be handling responsibility more like a twelve or thirteen year old.

This is not an insult and it should never be delivered as one. It is a way of explaining why a privilege arrives later here than for their friends,…

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Offered ten pounds now or twenty in an hour, plenty of people with attention difficulties take the ten and know while they are doing it that it makes no sense. The pull towards now is not a flaw of character.

It shows up in a laboratory and it shows up on a bank statement. Naming it helps, because a thing with a name can be planned around: money moved by…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 65:3

Before you explain anything about medication, ask what the person already believes about it. You cannot correct a worry that has never been said out loud.

Most people arrive carrying something: a cousin who could not sleep, a headline, a parent with a strong view. Lead with your own information and you…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 42:38

None of the non-stimulants should be stopped suddenly. Guanfacine and clonidine began life as blood pressure medicines, and taking them away all at once can send blood pressure sharply back up.

Atomoxetine has its own unpleasant discontinuation effects, closer to those of an antidepressant. So a break because a prescription ran out, or…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:43

In practice the non-stimulants turn up more often as an addition than on their own. A stimulant in the morning with guanfacine alongside it is a common shape.

The two act at different points of the same circuit, so they tend to complement rather than repeat each other, and the blood pressure effect of one…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 42:38

When a dose wears off, things can feel worse than they ever did untreated. A good deal of that is contrast rather than the medicine leaving a debt behind.

You have spent the day at one level and then meet your own baseline without warning, late in the afternoon, usually with something still to do.…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 55:8

A small short-acting dose in the afternoon, on top of the long-acting one, is ordinary practice rather than a special case. Homework and the evening drive often fall outside what the morning dose still reaches.

The hours when you most need to hold back are frequently the hours the medicine has stopped covering. Raising the morning dose to solve an early…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 73:20

Skipping weekends, holidays and summers is a common suggestion and mostly it is the wrong call. The difficulty does not take a holiday when school does.

Unstructured time asks more of planning and self-regulation rather than less: whole days to fill, everyone at home, no timetable holding the shape of…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 13:28

For a fair share of children, medication does more than take the edges off. Their behaviour in class comes back inside the ordinary range, which few treatments in psychiatry manage.

That matters for reasons past the symptoms themselves. A child who is no longer the one named in every staff meeting gets spoken to differently by…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 55:8

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