Practices

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Medication and how it works 52Your nervous system 52What anger actually is 45Get started 41Choosing your response 41The moment before you snap 39Systems for daily life 39The fear underneath anger 38Staying regulated in conflict 36Equanimity and perspective 36Your sense of time 31Touch and bodywork 30Bringing the future closer 30Moving your body 30Treatment and medication 27Exercise, food and other supports 26Getting assessed and diagnosed 26When everything feels flat 26Feelings and focus 25Grounding and settling 22What ADHD actually is 21Practising under provocation 19Food, caffeine and fuel 19Making it stick 18Structure and routine 18Cool the body first 18What worry does 17Screens and attention 17What you are actually defending 17Treatment and medication 16Growing empathy 15Breathing 15Fondness and admiration 13Answering bids 13Righteous anger and perfectionism 12Being seen and judged 12Shame and stigma 12Feeling from the inside 12Remembering to do it 11Knowing your partner 10Tolerate distress 8Repair after rupture 8Self-compassion 8Emotions as signals 8Breaking the worry loop 7When you use something to cope 7Use your strengths 7Gratitude 7Shared spiritual life 7Anger, alcohol and the body 6Facing it a step at a time 6Question the thought 5When anger turns to harm 5Meaning after harm 4Let the wave come 3Safety and grounding 3Working with anger 3Calm the body 3Act on your values 3Posture and how you carry yourself 3Notice the pattern and flex 3Name what you feel 3Rebuilding trust 3Your worth is not conditional 3Affection and touch 2Ride the urge 2Rest and pacing 2Your window of tolerance 2Work with your brain 2Patience and trust 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Listen to the body 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Keep the bond 2Hold a boundary 2Get it out of your head 2Find meaning 2Face it gently 2Care for yourself in loss 2Rituals of connection 2When you go numb 1The cost of avoiding 1Panic and the body 1Validate yourself and others 1Living with uncertainty 1Listening and understanding 1
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Stand up slowly. Getting off the floor after an hour of gaming, or out of bed in the morning, is where the dizziness tends to catch people.

A drop in blood pressure on standing is common enough with these medicines and it frightens people, because a near faint feels like something serious…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 12:67

If a question at the counter feels like judgement rather than care, you are allowed to ask which it is. Is this a medical question or a personal one?

Asked evenly it does not start a row, and it returns the conversation to where it belongs. Pharmacists have proper clinical questions to ask about…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 7:32

The skin patch comes with two things worth knowing before you start. Take it off several hours before bedtime or it keeps delivering and sleep goes, and around one person in six gets a rash bad enough to stop.

The upside is real control over the length of the day. Because the medicine stops arriving soon after the patch comes off, the removal time is yours…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:81

With a bedtime dose, the clock is the dose. Give it too early and the medicine switches on in the small hours, which buys you a child awake at half past four and no appetite at breakfast.

The ordinary effects still apply: appetite tends to dip around the middle of the day and sleep can be harder to come by. What changes is that one…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 55:8

Notice which word somebody reaches for. Protection sounds like a shield against loss, while what the studies describe is closer to a little extra growth, and those are not the same promise.

The difference is small on the page and large in a consultation. A parent who hears protection may start treating the tablet as a wall they cannot…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 17:36

The same question has not been asked of the non-stimulants. They reach much of the same circuitry, so you can see why people expect a similar effect over years, but expecting is all it is.

This is a good place to notice the shape of your own reasoning. Going from these drugs touch the same regions to therefore they do the same thing…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 53:28

People expect to feel wired and often describe feeling settled instead. That surprise is common enough to be worth knowing about before you start.

What tends to quieten is the churn: the half started tasks, the jumping from one thing to another, the low hum of being behind. That can read as calm…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 13:28

The line about not cutting, crushing or chewing a long acting medicine is a safety instruction with a real mechanism behind it. Break the coating and the whole day's dose arrives in one go.

People sometimes crush a capsule because swallowing is genuinely hard, not because they are misusing it, so ask before assuming. There are usually…

A minuteMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:81

A short acting dose lasts around four to six hours in most people, and bodies vary a great deal around that. Some clear it quickly and feel almost nothing, some clear it slowly and feel every side effect at a small dose.

If a tablet seems to have worn off by mid morning, or a low dose feels overwhelming, report it as a pattern rather than as a failure. It usually…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 33:5

Dry mouth, a later bedtime and a smaller appetite are the usual early complaints, and each has a workaround. Knowing about them in advance turns a nasty surprise into something you were already expecting.

Water and sugar free sweets for the mouth, an earlier dose for the sleep, food loaded into breakfast and dinner for the appetite. Most people who…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 4:28

A prescribed dose swallowed as a tablet is set to bring you into the ordinary range, not to make you high. The rise it produces is too slow and too small to be the sort of thing anybody chases.

Misuse in the research is concentrated among people who do not have ADHD and who take the medicine in ways it was never designed for, by crushing it,…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 7:32

The realistic difficulty with this medicine is not misuse. It is forgetting, since part of what is being treated is the very ability to remember to do something later.

So put the reminder outside your head. A weekly pill organiser sitting on top of whatever you pick up every morning, an alarm with the name of the…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 12:67

Medication does not simply turn the brain up. On scans the regions that should be busy during a task get busier, and the ones that should stay quiet settle.

That detail matters more than it sounds. It says the trouble is one of aim rather than a shortage of effort, which is the opposite of what many…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:69

Watch someone on a laboratory stop task and two things move together on medication: the fidgeting drops and the stopping gets more accurate.

Holding still and holding back turn out to run on the same machinery. That is why inhibition sits underneath so much else, from waiting your turn to…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 4:28

Offered ten pounds now or twenty in an hour, plenty of people with attention difficulties take the ten and know while they are doing it that it makes no sense. The pull towards now is not a flaw of character.

It shows up in a laboratory and it shows up on a bank statement. Naming it helps, because a thing with a name can be planned around: money moved by…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 65:3

None of the non-stimulants should be stopped suddenly. Guanfacine and clonidine began life as blood pressure medicines, and taking them away all at once can send blood pressure sharply back up.

Atomoxetine has its own unpleasant discontinuation effects, closer to those of an antidepressant. So a break because a prescription ran out, or…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:43

When a dose wears off, things can feel worse than they ever did untreated. A good deal of that is contrast rather than the medicine leaving a debt behind.

You have spent the day at one level and then meet your own baseline without warning, late in the afternoon, usually with something still to do.…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 55:8

For a fair share of children, medication does more than take the edges off. Their behaviour in class comes back inside the ordinary range, which few treatments in psychiatry manage.

That matters for reasons past the symptoms themselves. A child who is no longer the one named in every staff meeting gets spoken to differently by…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 55:8

There has been no genuinely new stimulant molecule for decades. What is new is almost always the delivery: how fast it arrives, how long it lasts, whether it can be sprinkled or chewed.

So when something is described as a new medication, the useful question is about its shape across the day rather than a new mechanism. That is no…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 53:28

New medicines will probably come from genetics and from the chemistry of the frontal lobes. None of it is close enough to be worth waiting for.

Compounds acting on particular dopamine receptors, on glutamate, and on nicotinic pathways have all been proposed, and the nicotinic route has…

Five minutesMedication and how it worksMedical and treatmentQur’an 12:44

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