Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
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3 practicesTheme · Name what you feel
Medication and how it works 177Your nervous system 120Systems for daily life 114What anger actually is 103Getting assessed and diagnosed 93The moment before you snap 88Choosing your response 81Get started 74Grounding and settling 71Moving your body 71Treatment and medication 71Equanimity and perspective 68Your sense of time 66Feelings and focus 66What ADHD actually is 65Cool the body first 65Staying regulated in conflict 65Touch and bodywork 65Screens and attention 62The fear underneath anger 61Exercise, food and other supports 61Bringing the future closer 60Food, caffeine and fuel 59When everything feels flat 54Practising under provocation 46The cost of avoiding 44Structure and routine 36Growing empathy 36Shame and stigma 35Breathing 35Reading, numbers and learning differences 34What worry does 34Making it stick 33Treatment and medication 31Being seen and judged 30Emotions as signals 30Remembering to do it 27Tolerate distress 27Knowing your partner 25Feeling from the inside 25What you are actually defending 24Facing it a step at a time 24Answering bids 24When you use something to cope 24Breaking the worry loop 24Shame 19Repair after rupture 19Obsessions and compulsions 18Righteous anger and perfectionism 17Shared spiritual life 17Rebuilding trust 17When anger turns to harm 15Fondness and admiration 15Affection and touch 15Posture and how you carry yourself 13Listening and understanding 13Rituals of connection 13Self-compassion 12Question the thought 11Use your strengths 10Gratitude 9Anger, alcohol and the body 8When you go numb 7Rest and pacing 5Panic and the body 5Living with uncertainty 5Safety and grounding 4Meaning after harm 4Letting it out safely 4Notice the pattern and flex 3Calm the body 3Let the wave come 3Name what you feel 3Act on your values 3Working with anger 3Your worth is not conditional 3Patience and trust 2Your window of tolerance 2Care for yourself in loss 2Work with your brain 2Listen to the body 2Ask and say no well 2Keep the bond 2Hold a boundary 2Help someone grieving 2Get it out of your head 2Find meaning 2Face it gently 2Validate yourself and others 2Ride the urge 2
When a feeling grips you, name it in one plain word: this is anger, this is fear, this is hurt.
Not a story about why. Just the name. Putting the feeling into a word loosens its hold.
Give the feeling a number from zero to ten, and watch the number instead of obeying it.
A rating turns a wave you are inside into something you are measuring from the shore.
Under the anger, name the softer feeling: often it is fear, or hurt, or feeling unseen.
Anger is a bodyguard. Name what it is guarding, and it begins to soften.
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